There is this guy that is a friend of an acquaintance I know. He is not even my type but every time I see him my heart skips a beat. He is not even my definition of attractive. He’s a bully. I don’t want to feel this way; in fact I am ashamed of it. What do I do? I know that if we started dating it probably would not work out so I don’t see why I like him. What do I do?
2006-12-06 07:12:09 · 6 answers · asked by RealDeal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i'm not attracted to bad guys, he's not bad or thugish but he is a bully.
2006-12-06 07:18:45 · update #1
no i'm not attracted to bad guys, he's not a bad boy or thugish but he is a bully.
2006-12-06 07:19:07 · update #2
Sweety.. I know excatly what you are going through . I'm in your shoes right now and I went ahead and took the initative to date him but the guy was not into me at all , so I always felt guilty of chasing him and right now I'm in the process of saying good bye
2006-12-06 07:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by adf a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the thing. Good girls get turned on by bad guys. You can't help it. It is just how good girls are wired.
It took me a while to develop a bad side, then I had fun. My good nature kept me from taking advantage of girls, but I saw plenty of good girls get knocked up by bad guys in my days.
2006-12-06 15:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say opposite attract. Maybe he is your soulmate and that you are the one that will straighten him out? Also some people produce a large amount of hormones that will draw the opposite sex.
2006-12-06 15:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that you are attracted to bad guys. rule of thumb about bad guys...tough on the outside biggest teddy bears on the inside. they act all hard just to keep thier image going but once you get to know them one on one, they can be the biggest sweathearts. take a chance, we all need to once in awhile.
2006-12-06 15:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by sillyme24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites attract...eventhough he's not someone u consider s=attractive u should give him a chance...in my experience the best relationships are the ones w/ people u wouldn't normally talk to...
2006-12-06 15:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you are attracted to him even if you don't want to be. If the guys a jerk and you can see him treating you like a jerk, then it's not worth it.
2006-12-06 15:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by gigi_victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋