kay, so i have a boyfriend, we've been dating for almost two months. were really close friends, but as my friends tell me... my boyfriend and my relationship is one you wouldnt call a "couple relationship" one of my friend always complains that i can do SO much better (most people say my bf is ugly, but i think hes cute and his personality is amazing.. the inside is what counts right?) well theres this other kid, he is really good looking, popular, and has a great personality. all my friends can tell that he wants to get to know me better, and is flirting with me. Most of my friends think i would be better with the other kid, but i dont want to lose my boyfriend, although im not too sure im as happy as i could be.. please help...sorry if you couldnt follow it all
2006-12-06 07:09:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds cheesy but follow your heart. Also make sure that the jock is interested in a relation ship, not just relations.
2006-12-06 07:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by Andy NIU 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Let me ask you this? Are you willing to not only toss aside, but as you say a close friend just because your other friends think he is ugly? In my opinion that makes your other friends ugly on the inside! I am not sure how old you are but I am guessing young teens maybe early high school. First of my advice is not to have any boyfriends LOL I went through all 4 years without one and had a BLAST! I would go to prom and other things like that either stag with a bunch of other girls or with a close guy friend. Trust me I was friends with a lot of those hot popular guys and guess what? they were all about trying to get laid and then moving on to the next girl (I warned so many girls about them but nobody listened) Just be true to yourself, do not give into peer pressure and maintain high personal morales and values for yourself and you will go far in this world. good Luck!
2006-12-06 15:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by Needingsomeadvice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I am in a similar situation and I can relate to how hard it is not knowing if for sure you are as happy as you could be. I would look at both of them and decide who you think you would be more fufilled with. Its a tough choice but one that you cannot ignore and will not just go away. Make the best decision for yourself (not your friends) and then live with it, don't dwell on what-ifs or what may have been. I hope you find the answer you're looking for and good luck!!
2006-12-06 15:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by TheHottestChristinaYouKnow 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is don't listen to your friends you need to question there friendship if they are your friends then they should be happy that your happy and if you are not happy then you need to move on and find someone that makes you happy. Second Looks isn't everything you need to sit back and think if you don't know what you really want you will never be happy.
2006-12-06 15:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by honey brown 0001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is ever 100% sure that the person they are with is THE one,but don't think the grass is always greener on the other side either.If you are doing fine in your current relationship don't jeopardise it on the chance that your friends might be right ,they are not you.
2006-12-06 15:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Nookie bear 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's all about what you want. Do you want to have a "boyfriend" at this time or just date? One thing though...Don't listen to your friends opinions. Everyone will always have something to say about anything. Are you happy with your boyfriend or do you want someone else? You have to ask yourself these questions first.
2006-12-06 15:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Pretti Poodle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok look, You love your boyfriend. Right? If you really love him, you won't leave him for the one you "like". And to me, it sounds like you don't like the other one...you are letting your friends tell you what "they think you should do". This is not right at all. I went through the exact same situation, I believed what my friends said and then it broke everything. It sucked.
2006-12-06 15:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Alex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey beleive me looks are not everything and usually when someone is really cute everybody else wants them to. Like I always preach to my daughters you better find someone with some substance to them you know like smart who has ambition and that thinks you are most important not weather your friends think they are cute or not....
2006-12-06 15:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by draper159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remeber that the grass is always greener on the other side.. if he's so great (the other guy) why dosent he have a girlfriend already??? And let me guess, none of your friedns have BF's either do they??? Tell everyone to mind their business, and do what makes you happy...
2006-12-06 15:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by devynedesigns 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why let a perfectly good relationship go to waste? If you like his personality and you think he's cute, that's all that matters. Appreiciate what you have in front of you.
2006-12-06 15:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by Erin 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋