there's this asian teacher that i work with at my school and the first day he came here he started hitting on me. I rejected him at first but ended up liking him a bit and made the mistake of sleeping with him. He knew i was married with kids but he still came onto me and i fell for it. This was a mistake and we only slept together for a month but i told him it has to end and he still keeps making moves on me? I dont think he has told anyone around the office but when we're around everyone he'll whisper in my ear "i wanna f*ck you" and i dont know what to do with him? I'm still attracted to the guy but im married and this relationship is just WRONG.
2006-12-06 07:04:16 · 20 answers · asked by kitana_fabiola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was WRONG when you did it. I don't know what to tell you. I am disturbed that you had an affair.
2006-12-06 07:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by gigi_victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, why the F*ck did you get married if you're just going to F*ck the first attractive guy that hits on you. You obviously don't have enough will power to keep your damn legs together. It's tramps like you that make it hard for guys to trust a woman. You probably don't even feel bad about it do you B*tch, you just don't want anybody to find out. Personally, I hope your husband finds out and divorces your sorry ***. Better yet, why don't you just divorce your husband : 1-you don't deserve him, 2-you don't know the meaning of a F*cking marriage. I guess wedding vows are just meaningless words coming from the mouth of a tramp. You should be ashamed of yourself. hhhaaackkk tthhttoooo....
that's me spitting on you.
2006-12-06 15:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If at all possible you need to find another job within the office so you can get away from this guy. If that doesn't work you need to tell your boss that he is harassing you, and you want him to leave you alone. I was just curious, you knew it was wrong the first time you slept with him, but you ONLY slept with him for 1 month? You need to get your priorities straight or you will lose your job AND your husband.
2006-12-06 15:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asking about sex with coworkers and yet you know it is wrong to have an affair. Your mess clean it up. Don't ask for help or sympathy. The only thing you will get from me is your pathetic and don't deserve your husband.
2006-12-06 15:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either stay away from this man or get another job. Sex in the workplace is not safe. You could both lose your jobs and your family. Think about it.
2006-12-06 15:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by nashvillekat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right about that, it is WRONG! You need to tell your husband....get it off your conscience. This way, you can tell your co-worker to f uck off and leave you alone with out the worry of your husband finding out. Your husband deserves to know, and if he finds out through the grapevine, he will be pissed. you need to be honest. He is probably going to be hurt no matter what, he needs to find out from you.
2006-12-06 15:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said it yourself...The relationship is WRONG...How hard is it to figure out? You need to think about your family...because it seems like this guy only wants you for sex...If he really cared about you he wouldnt want to hurt you in any way...Like he is right now...putting you in this situation...
2006-12-06 15:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Janine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u didn't know it wrong until u slept with him.
come one u r grown anough to know that sleeping with him was wrong at first place.
good luck what can i say, i mean u know what to do.
i hope it doesn't go where ur husband don't find out about it.
2006-12-06 15:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you know it's wrong why are u asking the public for opinions? tell him to stop saying these things to you. and only discuss business matters with him.
2006-12-06 15:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F*ck him 1 more time then tall him no more
2006-12-06 15:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by tiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and a month is a long time to spend in bed.
2006-12-06 15:09:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋