I am becoming deperssed. My boyfriend said he is not in love with me anymore than broke up with me. I had to quite my job (Which I loved) becuase of family issues. And it has been a long time since i was acually noticed by a guy , other than my Ex-boyfriend. I just am feeling so insecure about myself right now Im at my breaking point. Help Please!
2006-12-06 06:45:02 · 5 answers · asked by autumn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off your self esteem should not be wrapped up in what you do or who you are seeing. It should come from being proud of who you are. I suggest going back to the job you quite and asking them if they have any openings and to keep you in mind if they have one come up.
Second, boys do not notice those who do not notice themselves.
Work on finding the things you love about yourself! People notice people with confidence and high-self esteem! Think about the people you admire and notice.
2006-12-06 06:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by hougie21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well..
it depoends on wat ur not happy with abt urself...
BUT
you could die your hair something draptic and sexy lol
buy a whole new wadrobe creating a sexy new u.
some percings always look gd
Also maybe losing weight if u think u need to.. because i wasnt happy with my weight so i lost a little bit and i found myself a bit more attractive!
and give urself a confidence boost buy doing things u never thouhght u would try! get all ur friend togther and go on a girl night out clubbing drinking dancing and dress up
every girl needs a change at least 1s a month of anything like something to creat a postive affect
hope i helped :)
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2006-12-06 14:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe Honey - Been there! it SUCKS, I know! I am still working on this myself- but I know what needs to be done - You need to love YOU first! Go out- thats rule #1, go out and have fun - dont THINK about it (hard for a chick to do, I know). as my father says "it will come when you least expect it". Put yourself out there- even though its hard. Start a journal - writing it down helps.
If you FEEL attractive and self confident guys will notice - even if you arent a super hot chick. Feel hot inside first - it will come out eventually. Good luck hun!
2006-12-06 14:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Broken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.livingwelltools.com/ offers products such as affirmations which has personally helped me out a lot. I'd recommend checking it out!
2006-12-06 14:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Andy NIU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets go to the bar and get drunk
2006-12-06 14:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋