I was trying to talk to a girl I like in school today. I started a conversation just fine, but when I was about to charm her with my impeccable wit (I thought of what I was going to say before I said it, BTW), I completely froze and forgot what to say! There was sort of an awkward silence and we walked to our buses.
I think I actually think TOO MUCH before I talk. Any tips on how I can avoid freezing up again, and saving face for screwing up today?
2006-12-06 06:43:16 · 15 answers · asked by The Real Deal. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well talk to her and just let the conversation go where it needs to go. don't try so hard to impress her, just be your self good luck
2006-12-06 06:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way is to not overthink. then, you're afraid you'll screw up, and probably will. come up with funny stuff, charming lines, but not a structure for speaking, for adaptability's sake. a reed will bend in the wind, but an oak will get blown down for standing too stiff.
2006-12-06 06:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her tomorrow at school and tell her that her beauty left you speechless and then take it from there thinking before you talk is a good thing just don't let it get in the way of your conversation
2006-12-06 06:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by erk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl isn't going to bite you. Just be calm and remember she is a human just like you. She's probably just as nervous too.
2006-12-06 06:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i got ya i got ya alrright when you see her just say whatz up adn when she responds start a conversation don't think about it before cuz then the wrong thing will come out so just be cool about it and chillaxxxx
2006-12-06 06:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...your story made my day! I know how you feel. You just need to be yourself. If you forget your preplanned speech, improvise something. Ask a question, so that she has to talk for awhile allowing you to gather your thoughts.
2006-12-06 06:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by gigi_victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rehearse something, just wing it. it will always come out better that way. make a funny remark, or just give the girl a compliment. it always works dude.
2006-12-06 06:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Digi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to relate to things that you can talk about. like "I like that movie too..." and when you calm down then be witty right before you leave so as to leave her smiling and thinkin about you.
2006-12-06 06:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by MENTALLY UNSTABLE MAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about her as one of your boyz and relax...sometimes girls are nerves to...don't stop thinking before you speak but kind of memorize what you want to say to her...i hope it works adn good luck
2006-12-06 06:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by ladywetherell23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax, be yourself, don't stress over it. you're just a person trying to make conversation with another person.
2006-12-06 06:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋