This is NOT about me.
My friend's little sister is 20 and got married to her boyfriend last year. He is 19 right now. They are trying to get pregnant with their first baby and they live at the husband's parents' basement.
The little sister said she planned to live there until they can buy their own home, but it might not be for many years since they only graduated high school and work for a department store and a sporting good store.
My friend is pissed about this whole thing and thinks her sister is being immature and irresponsible. Her sister said that they shouldn't have to wait to get pregnant just because they have no money or house.
What do you think about the situation?
2006-12-06 06:42:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
When we got married, we lived with my dad for about 6 months until we could get our own place. It was horrible..... I am a grown (and married) adult and being treated like a little girl was very demeaning. It was too creepy to even attempt to have sex with my dad sleeping in the next room. I think the chick has it pretty easy living with mom and dad, and needs to see how the real world is before she starts trying to have babies.
2006-12-06 07:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friends sister is letting her parents pick up the bill and needs to grow up and take care of her self before she has a baby if she cant pay for a house now how will she do it with a baby to pay for they can cost several hundred dolars a month even thousands if there sick alot
2006-12-06 06:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Catie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you pay to your very own nutrition? outfits? Do you pay lease? Do you and/or your better half have a activity that can help your small family which incorporate each thing the toddler desires? the base line is to purely be useful you and your better half are relatively raising your very own newborn and not your dad and mom. often, i might tell human beings on your concern to no longer TTC as we communicate. inspite of the undeniable fact that, it form of feels that your dad and mom have quite some area *and* you have already gotten the bypass-forward out of your mom, so because it quite is a competent initiate. sturdy success to you!
2016-10-17 21:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe having a baby will motivate them to want to be a family of their own. i know that raising my son in my parents home would be a struggle and we are extremely close.
it isn't really your friends decision. the parents are allowing them to live with them. if they are married and choose to have a child then they better be ready to care for it. life isn't perfect and their cozy basement home may not always be available.
i hope everything works out well. SD
2006-12-06 14:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by SD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is still living off ehr parents. She needs to grow up and get their own place before they start having or thinking about children. She is only 20...she has plenty of time to have a baby. Do some growing together and get your own space before having children...don't live off your parents
2006-12-06 06:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to wait. Buying a house is hard enough without trying to raise a child while you save up for the house.
2006-12-06 06:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by angelbaby4912 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are young and should wait on the baby until they get their own home. It is a big imposition.
2006-12-06 06:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since they are married then they have every right to get pregnant.
If they are paying rent and doing for themselves then i wouldn't worry but if they are having to depend on everyone else then no this would not be the right time to get pregnant.
2006-12-06 06:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by Gabriella & Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋