Last week I posted a question about getting mixed signals. Well after talking with him it turns out he just wanted some space. I was always around at his work and he wanted some time away from me. But you see that is how we met, is because I am always at his work! I told him that all he had to do was communicate that and I would have respected that. I too like my space when it comes to guys I am seeing. I think its important to take things slowly and let them build on a solid friendship foundation. He asked me to come meet his friends on Sunday so I did! Thats a good sign, right? We have texted back and forth since. Just small things, but he is very polite always using Thank You and Your Welcome! I love that! I guess the question is, what should I do or not do next? Thanks!
2006-12-06 06:41:26 · 6 answers · asked by hougie21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wait for him to make the next move.
Having "space" is important for most guys. It is hard to get used to, but don't take it personally. Let him come to you always & respond with appreciation (even though it will be so hard to wait).
My guy likes to have his "space" to this day. We have been together for 3 years. He comes back with more "love" it seems.
2006-12-06 06:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He let you know you were coming on too strong. Just play it cool. The ball is in his court. Just keep giving it more time.
2006-12-06 06:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
meeting friends ia always good! just take it slow and u will be fine! nothing worse than living outta someones pockets.
2006-12-06 06:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by clare 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, give him space...but not too much. guys tend to run wild with their ropes and end up hanging themselves. hang back a bit, make HIM feel like he needs to try harder to keep you.
2006-12-06 06:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes, you should leave him alone. If you are always dying to talk to him, he will think you are boring.
2006-12-06 07:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Chris P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him and know wat he is about, dont rush things,be yourself and get to understand him as a person. laugh together.
2006-12-06 06:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by marsha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋