plus you haven't had sex wit your mate in 3-4mths!!!!!
2006-12-06 06:37:41 · 15 answers · asked by lil_jet05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why havent u had sex with your mate in so long?! Try having sex with your mate.....having sex with someone else will only make things worse in the end. and once u start cheating , u will always be tempted to cheat
2006-12-06 06:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by hollywoood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question should be why haven't you had sex with your mate in 3-4 months. There is obviously a problem in your relationship unless you both agreed to not have sex. If I were you I'd end the relationship if the relationship is not going well.
Actually, if you are thinking of sleeping with someone other than your mate something must serioiusly be wrong in your relationship. You need to find out what's going on. Life is too short to waste time. You only have one life to live and everyone deserves to live a happy life.
Good luck
2006-12-06 14:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be a sign that your relationship is in jeapordy. It would really be best for you to work things out with your significant other. Unless you are finished with the relationship & in that case you need to get out of that relationship. Lies & cheating gets to you after awhile. Even if it doesn't catch up with you, it becomes exhausting & if you have any morals at all it will start eating at you. I say either sit down with your mate & talk openly about how you feel & that you're not comfortable with not having sex for that long. Tell your mate that you need more. If then they don't change, you may need to move on. I wouldn't recommend the cheating scene, though, but that's just me.
2006-12-07 19:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to sleep around cause your not getting any at home. Well, you could go out and f*** someone else or you could 1st seek guidance from God in the matter. Go to your man like you are coming here and tell him: Look boo I'm feelin you and all but lately I'm feelin left out and unappreciated. We haven't made love in 3-4 months and I wants to know whats really going on. Are you seeing someone else and if thats the case then we need to go our separate ways so we both can be happy. Don't just go out and have sex with someone else just because you aren't getting any. You be the bigger person and step up to the plate and let him know how you are feelin and just be honest and open with him. He will either be honest with you or he will lie. In the end you aren't married and if you feel he isn't the one that move on and you have to be happy cause its all about you girl.
2006-12-06 14:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say dump your mate then sleep with the other guy. its not worth it take it from someone whos been there done that . The guilt eats at you for what you have done to the person you were supposed to love. You may or may not get caught but you have to think of not only what its going to do to the person that you are in love with but what its going to do to you. If you are so unhappy just end it then jump the bones of the guy your talking about.
2006-12-06 14:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell ur boyfriend that u wanna take a break and the like 3 or 4 days later have sex with that one dude and then like a week later go back wit ur boyfriend and he will never kno unless he goes and tells his buudies. I think that u should do what ur heart tells u to do and if u think ur makin a mistake then don't do it...but if u want to to then do it.
2006-12-06 14:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by wafflebutt2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then its time for you to leave your mate... If you are thinking about someone else then its time to move on...
Plus someone that won't sleep with you obviously has no interest in you...
It would be wrong for you to sleep with the other guy before you break up with your current guy...
Move on girl...
Good luck!!
2006-12-06 14:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything, you need to figure out why you aren't having sex with your mate. Take the high road and end one relationship before starting another. You'll be glad you did.
2006-12-06 14:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kayt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would straight up tell my mate that!!
i haven't had any in 3-4 months and i am looking elsewhere.
they have a right to know.
maybe knowing that you are at the point to look elsewhere for your needs may open their eyes to what;s going on.
2006-12-06 14:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Killerdaysie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you still with him? if it's just a sex thang you should leave. Unless your mate is okay with it, then go for it.
2006-12-06 14:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by champagne b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋