I'm the same but a female, why can't I find the same in a guy?
2006-12-06 06:34:47 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes! I know several men that fit this description. Where do you live? I'm not kidding. My neighbor is a perfect example. He is also single, 39, an investment banker, he is musically talented (guitar, vocals) and artistic (paints, sculpts) -- I could go on and on about him! Two other friends come to mind. Both are professionals, one is in his early 30's and the other has just turned 40 -- both are single, attractive and great friends. Maybe it depends upon where you live. In my town, I really do know TONS of single guys over 30 who are genuinely nice people who would make great catches. They, too, are wondering where all of the intelligent, single, attractive, hard working gals are! Good luck!
2006-12-06 06:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Shibi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh they exist all over the place, but the women that were smart enough to realize it picked them up when they were 26. They're all married now and having a blast, cause he's honest and a good father. You waited too long to look for this perfect guy, and now it's too late. Looks like you have to settle for for the old guy at the clubs, because you wanted to live your life and party you passed a good man by. I'm pretty sure that you even turned down the nerdy guy when you were younger, and now he's grown up and turned into the man you want, but he's bitter from being rejected in the past by girls like you.
2006-12-06 06:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny Afman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find him, I did! He found me 7 1/2 years ago online. My ad was honest. Yours must be too. What do you want? I wanted someone who was honest, made more money than I did, responsible, over 6 feet tall, would be a great step-father to my children, someone who wanted more kids and would let me stay at home to take care of them. Someone who was good with money (planning, saving, budgeting). Someone who believed in God and loved me--despite my baggage. So, I put the ad out there. (My ex-husband read the ad and told me I was smoking crack or cracked in the head). But I was honest and not willing to settle. He is exactly what I wished for and 3 new babies later, we are happy and we complete each other. Just be honest about what you really want and go from there. Good Luck Oh, about that attractive thing.. Sometimes it is okay to be the pretty one and attractive comes in many forms. Just be open to it.
2006-12-06 06:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mom2six 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been here !!! ... i actually have been travelling.
Im 38, i've got enough knowledge to hold a 24 hour ever changing conversation (140 IQ) and a funny handyman. Im single and im fair in the looks dept. I do RF engineering services for a wireless giant anywhere in the states.
im just kidding... ;)
That kind of guy exist but it might take a while... he's around there somewhere. just be patient... your not in any time constraint, right? good... You'l meet him someday.
good luck
2006-12-06 06:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by mapanakodamulag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found one, but we were in our early twenties when we met.I've discovered that i never meet quality guys when I'm single but they magically appear when I'm in a relationship.I had given up on dating and was happily raising my son on my own when two of my friends got together and set up a blind date that i did not want to go on.I went and I've never been sorry.15 years later and he's still the one.
2006-12-06 06:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by jezebel_lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he does but I'm engaged to him! (Well, he is 35 exactly)
However, I spent 12 years pretty much single so I feel your pain.
There are good guys out there you just have to be ready to meet one.
2006-12-06 06:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been told I am all of this and actually have the same question about women. I am however 5 years younger than your description.
2006-12-06 06:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO this man does not exist. They don't exist at any age... we were all brought up to believe that one day we would find this person but it is a fallacy used to torment us. Women who believe they have this man are fooling themselves....and those of us out there that are wondering where to find him are wasting our time.
2006-12-06 06:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by witchway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is out there... Though I'm 32...
But I know plenty of 35 and over guys like you are describing...
Good luck!!!
2006-12-06 06:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract and you want the same as yourself. Thats one reason why you havent found one yet.
As Joanne M just did in another answer.
Look no further I am here lol
2006-12-06 06:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋