since i asked her, she got pregnant and convinced her boyfriend to marry her. she didn't even send me a card when my baby was born. i asked her to be the godmother months ago. when i asked her she said she was SO happy and was crying, it was so sweet.
she never mentioned it again.
2006-12-06 06:22:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, it sounds like she's been living her life at warp speed since you asked her. Perhaps you need to ask her about it again and see how she still feels about it.
2006-12-06 06:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by gigi_victory 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should a little jealous. " she got pregnant and convinced her boyfriend to marry her" I am not sure why or what this has to do with your request of her to be your child's god mother. However, you will need to figure out why your so displeased with your "friend" becoming pregnant and getting married. And I don't think she convinced her boyfriend to marry her, perhaps he was already thinking of doing so, and the pregnancy made him move a little quicker, however or whatever the reason. My thinking is you would be happy for her not jealous of her. One cannot make someone get married, this is a choice. To answer your question, yes perhaps you should remind her, with the impending birth of a new child and also a wedding. She may very well have forgotten, I can see how this would have slipped her mind. So just mention it to her, and see if she is still interested. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-06 06:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she doesn't understand what being a Godmother means to you. It might be best if you can find a kind way to ask her if she understands the meaning of it the way that you do, rather than stew about it.
2006-12-06 06:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 21:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even ask her. It's clear that she doesn't care one bit... Go on with your life,and look for someone else to be the godmother of your baby.
2006-12-06 06:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Yesy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She could have forgotten or maybe she was jealous because you had a baby and she didnt. Thats probably why she got pregnant and convinced her boyfriend to marry her. Sounds like pure jealousy to me. A true friend wouldnt have forgotten something important like that.
2006-12-06 06:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know where you live, but maybe she comes from a part of the country that doesn't recognize what being a Godparent really means. Some people consider it a "name-only" thing and others take it very seriously.
Just talk to her about it.
2006-12-06 06:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by teel2624 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like someone has jealousy issues! if she were a real friend she wouldn't have forgotten about your baby's christening!!! thats pretty much unacceptable since she's the godmother!
2006-12-06 06:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Cayleen O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has an early case of "mommy brain". Gently remind her of your request. She probably just honestly forgot in all the excitement.
2006-12-06 06:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has alot going on as well.. try not ro be bitter about it and talk it over once again with her and then take it from there...
2006-12-06 06:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by deedlman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋