So he can talk to his child. He still loves her. And you know, I would never know the truth about if she still loves him or not. What should I do?
2006-12-06 06:16:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not jealous, I just asked for your opinions.
2006-12-06 08:13:00 · update #1
I think that you are supposed to provide a number where you can be reached when a child is involved.
2006-12-06 06:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you getting married? Are you taking full responsiblilty for the child? If not, then this is a situation that you should even concern yourself with. If she loves him that will come out eventually. There will always be a connection because of the child no matter what. If the dad wants to have a relationship with his child why come between that? How would you feel if you had a child with another woman and the relationship did not work out yet you childs mother had to get permission from her "boyfriend" to allow you to speak to your child? Answer that and you have anwered your own question
2006-12-06 14:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by busymother2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and trust her. He is the father of her child. It's only mature to respect that and allow him to talk to his child. When you say he's still in love with her, you are probably correct. Majority of couple that split don't do it because they don't love eachothe, they do it because they feel it is better for them to move on in their lives. My mom and dad have been divorced for 13 years and they still love eachother. How would you feel if you had a child you couldn't talk to because your ex's new boyfriend wouldn't allow it?
2006-12-06 14:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes never seperate a child from their father. You have to trust her, this guy MUST be a part of her and the childs life for a long time.
2006-12-06 14:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by krissy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well when you started seeing her, you knew she had a child with another man. By accepting her, you are accepting her and her "baggage." By being with her, you have to expect them to have a connection until the child turns 18. I think she is with you for a reason, probably because she wants to be. You will just have to trust your gut. You will feel it if something isn't right. Good luck!
2006-12-06 14:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, she didn't have to ask your permission man. You should know how much she cares about you just because she asked. You really have no say in the matter because they are going to have some sort of relationship FOREVER!! They have a child together man.
2006-12-06 14:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by A.C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump high Jump low he is her baby father and he will want to talk to his child. As for the mother you will just have to trust her.
2006-12-06 14:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just going to have to trust your girl. If her baby's father wants to be in the baby's life than by all means let him. If she loves you and wants to be with you then you should have nothing to worry about!
2006-12-06 14:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lori J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
um the child deserves 2 have a father
2006-12-06 14:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by Restricted 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least she asked you - that shows she respects you and isn't trying to hide anything. That sounds reasonable to me as long as he just calls to talk to or about the child.
2006-12-06 14:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋