I'm getting married in June. I don't know what's wrong, but I feel like it's not gonna happen. My fiancee is not giving me any wrong vibes, I just feel like I'm not gonna get married. My dad has two sisters (56 & 44) and neither is married. I'll be the first grand daughter to get married. I'm really stressed out behind this, is this normal? It's to the point where I wanna go to the courthouse but I don't want to cheat myself of the nice wedding I deserve. HELP!!
2006-12-06 05:44:33 · 14 answers · asked by So What 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Cold Feet. That's what's happening. I'm getting married 5/5/07 and I'm feeling the same way. Like for some reason he'll change his mind at the last minute or something. I know how you feel! He loves you or he wouldn't have wanted to marry you in the first place. Just take a deep breath, remember everything you love about him and picture yourself married to him. It'll help!
2006-12-06 06:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kitten 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine!! You need to relax. Get help with all the planning so you don't feel so stressed. It is completely normal to feel this way. I'm getting married next year and everyday my fiance asks me if I will be at the alter. He also asks if I will say "I do" he feels the same way you do. Everything will be fine as long as you don't let the stress take over!
2006-12-06 05:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by vanessac2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all in your head, don't stress out!!!! Your getting married, your fiance loves you and your going to have a beautiful summer wedding. Try not to think about what others in your family have done or not done, its really not up to you to worry about their past or present. Everyone is different and your different. Your engaged and this is supposed to be part of the happiest and funnest time in your life, planning your wedding. Don't let your familys life stress you out.... Good Luck.
2006-12-06 06:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if you feel that it isn't right for YOU... you should probably re-examine yourself.
Also, you seem to want to get married for the novelty of getting married, and your words have a hint of judgement towards your unmarried Aunts. Marriage is NOT the yardstick by which people are judged.
We have a 50% divorce rate in this nation... I know, you're different, and will make it work.
HALF of all marriage end in divorce. That's staggering. Mostly because people are getting married before they are ready and because they dream of having a "fairytale" wedding.
Get over your childish fantasies and look hard at yourself to see if this is really what is best for you, your boyfriend and your future progeny.
2006-12-06 05:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by RobotoMR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hokey smokes, it's AGES before your wedding. Make sure you spend time with your man and DON'T talk about wedding stuff all the time. Concentrate on each other, and the marriage you will have.
2006-12-06 10:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal ... your just nervous and you have stress ... relax ... your getting married ... don't cheat yourself out of a nice wedding ... just take a deep breath!! if you continue to stress out over this you may push your fiancee a way!!
2006-12-06 06:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The "church" is the bride of Christ. The church is the persons or a neighborhood of believers. The 'believers' that had been baptized into Christ. In order to be a Christian, you ought to be baptized into His dying. In which the Good News or Gospel, is His beginning, dying, and resurrection. <><
2016-09-03 11:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling the pre-wedding jitters..... Just take things one day at a time..... Preparing for a wedding can be very stressful.
2006-12-06 05:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by JohnS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. You have 7 months to go- ride it out. It's normal it's normal it's normal. Your dad's sisters aren't you.
Don't go to the courthouse- when you celebrate your day with all the people who love you, you'll be glad you shared it with them.
2006-12-06 05:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel this way, we all get nervous and such. I am nervous as well, this will be my second marrage so I am scared to no end. Just breath and remember that he loves you. It doesn't matter what your family history is, you are your own person and he loves you for you.......best of luck.
2006-12-06 05:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Army Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋