If a man(woman) wants you...for all girls and guys to read?

Question

IF A MAN WANTS YOU

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

I've posted it before, but I think it's great advice...I'm not stereotypin guys or girls, this is just to show how you should or should not be treated...respect yourselves.

Answer 1

That is very true. I am glad you posted it again because I have not seen it before.

Answer 2

What a great poem for ethics of dating. Truly wonderful I read it three times. It boosted my spirits. Great writing ;)

Answer 3

Yeah! I agree with you Girl, but where's the question? What you stated are like testaments from the Bible, every girl knows as the truth, but some of us tend to forget at times and need to be reminded, thanks, but what's your point?

Answer 4

Thanks a lot.I do agree with everything thats been mentioned above.i am gonna save it in my pc.This information is truely valuable.Thanks again for helping us out.

Answer 5

Thanks for posting this. I think a lot of people should read this to remember who they are. It boosted my spirits and I know it will others. Thanks again and bless you.