i m 16 and a girl and i have a cousin who is also a girl and she is only 14 years old well the problem is that she has a boy friend and boyfriends arent allowed in our family till 18 now i dont know what i should do should i tell my family about t his cause alot of ppl think that i m jealous cause i dont have a bf but the truth is i m not jealous at all she is actually jealous of me a because i m from america and she said that the boys only like me cause i m from new york
2006-12-06 05:21:39 · 20 answers · asked by nYc g@L 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nooo don't tell on her. It's supposed to be you guys against the parents!! Kidding. But what do you have to gain from telling on her? They will probably figure it out on their own so I would just wait for that to happen.
2006-12-06 05:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, a lot of people don't follow the rules. As far as your cousin is concerned, though, I think 14 is a little on the young side for a boyfriend. If she plans on having sex with him or something along those lines, I'd probably try and talk with her about it first. Or, if you absolutely feel the need to get her busted, then set it up so that she and the forbidden boyfriend are meeting at a place you know of in advance, and take your Mom or Dad there "on accident". That way, she gets busted and you won't be directly on the hook for it...
2006-12-06 13:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by clever nickname 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should talk to her and tell her that her parents would be upset. I think that her parents will find out on there own. If you tell then she will think that you are jealous.
2006-12-06 13:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by MIA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is your place to tell on her. Your not her parents. If you think she shouldnt be dating this boy then have a conversation with her.
2006-12-06 13:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by COCOA 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Live YOUR life sweetheart. Why waste your energy and concern on your cousins life. She has her life to live, and she's living it. If she wants to break the rules, so be it. That's her decision. You have YOUR life to live. Who cares what your cousin does. Do you care what you do in YOUR life?
2006-12-06 13:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by eh! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 16 years old, live your life and stop worrying about your cousin. Whatever mistakes she makes will be hers not yours.
2006-12-06 13:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
16? boy friend? geeez, give urself a break. why dont u just go tot park and have some fun kiddy fun
2006-12-06 13:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your family is crazy. Don't listen to anything they say and just follow your god given instincts regarding mating. That's what I do.
2006-12-06 13:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are jealous. Grow up and leave her alone
2006-12-06 13:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by Patti T 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let her get caught by her self that way she can not hate you for telling on her.
2006-12-06 13:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by red1967 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋