isnt it really cheating to fall in love with somebody else before marriage?
2006-12-06 05:00:09 · 26 answers · asked by Aswathy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Huh??? Do you really not care to get a decent answer? Because your question sure looks like you don't care.
2006-12-06 05:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by snowfreeze3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage does not have to be involved for cheating to occur. If you are in a relationship that is more than friends and you sleep with or fall in love with another person you have cheated.
In fact, there is no way to fall in love with someone without having some form of intimacy with that person. There is no way that falling in love with a different person than the one you are committed to can be classified as anything other than cheating.
Also, if you fall in love with someone else before getting married you should end the first relationship. You are never going to have the feelings that you should have in your marriage and it will fail.
Take care,
Troy
2006-12-06 13:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really depends on the person to be honest. Some people consider it emotional cheating. Some people only consider it cheating if you act upon it. This is a grey area that you will have to decide on.
Personally - I'd say no unless you are emotionally acting on it (not just physically).
2006-12-06 13:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lyllian Fayleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it cheating if you fall in love with someone else before you are married. Its cheating if you mess around with someone else while involved with someone. And remember sometimes emotional cheating is worse then physical.
2006-12-06 13:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in the world can you even ask such a question like this you already have the answer to You are obviously not in love with the guy you are talking about marrying so don't make a vow you can't keep its not fair to the one who wants to marry you be honest with him and move out of his life and let him be with someone who can love him sincerely
2006-12-06 13:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by evan g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is falling in love cheating.. are u with someone else already and then u are going for someone else at the same time? it really depends on how u look at it
2006-12-06 13:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is an action, not a feeling.
There is not any special magic that happens when you hook up with someone to make everyone else on the planet unattractive.
2006-12-06 13:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? If you fall in love with someone else you probably shouldn't be getting married at all. Cheating is if you are being intimate in anyway with someone whom you are not in the relationship with.
2006-12-06 13:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider it cheating to fall in love with someone else. It's cheating when you start to lie to your current partner about it, or you don't tell them at all. That's not fair to them or you
2006-12-06 13:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by squeak_1974 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not cheating. How you act upon your feelings for your new love interest is how to determine if you have cheated. This is correct for all types of commitment, whether you be dating, engaged or married.
2006-12-06 13:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating if you fall in love with someone while you are engaged to someone else...
2006-12-06 13:03:02 · answer #11 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋