One day she is really affectionate and loves me lots. The next i barely here from her and when i txt her or whatever shes short with me. Im tired of this, should i confront her about this or is it the way women are(please dont take offense to that)? Are women moody and i should just get used to it?
2006-12-06 04:31:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was like that in my relationship and when my boyfriend pointed out to me and i saw that i was like that myself then i realized that it can really confuse people. talk to your girlfriend about it, tell her that when she is cold to you that it hurts your feelings and you wonder how she feels about you. thats what my boyfriend said to me and i dont want to hurt him so I watched my atitude. That is also called personal growth and i give him credit. she will give you credit. talk to her please? dont leave her you might break her heart
2006-12-06 04:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is under a lot of stress in her life, it could just be that.
Ask her about it; see if there's some reason behind her behavior. Some women are just naturally "moody" but more often than not, there's a reason for the moodiness.
2006-12-06 04:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definently confront her. Let her know that you notice her erratic behavior and it worries you. Don't come at her mad, come at her concerned for her health and well being. Ask her if there is a reason she is so hot and cold and if there is anything you can do. Let her know that you'd like to be more affectionate together.
It is very likely she is aware of this but doesn't know how to control it herself. The key is not to get upset and not to start upset about it. Be calm and act concerned.
2006-12-06 04:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First men are just as moody as women. Trust me, I live with a moody man. Anyway, back to your question.................Yes, talk to her about this and how it makes you feel when she's less than corgial with you. Tell her to either treat you like a person, or to get out of your life. She won't stop this behaviour unless you say something.
2006-12-06 04:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her bc you don't want to keep or hide any of your feelings from her. She's probably not aware of this so I would definantly tell her. And as for women being moody, yes we are moody but each woman differs. I'm not that moody just around certain people that agitate me but around people that I love to be around I am pretty consistent with my moods.
2006-12-06 04:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are moody. Neither do all women play the game that this one is playing.
Don't say anything to her. Not one word. Don't talk to her. Don't take her phone calls. Don't read the note she passes to you. Just get a new girl, and move on.
She's playing with your emotions. If you give in to her now, it will only get worse.
Drop her.
2006-12-06 04:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her I don't know how much time you have invested into this relationship but good communication is the key to everything. And everyone men and women have moody moments.
2006-12-06 04:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by HARWOODH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ask her if something is wrong. And also be honest about how her actions affect you -- how you feel confused and hurt.
But try not to sound accusing; make sure she understands that it's just a concern that you would like to talk about with her. If she thinks you're accusing her, she'll feel offended and get defensive, possibly even hostile.
2006-12-06 04:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about it and yes women are sometimes moody but make sure that you are not doing any thing to cause her to react that way towards you. And be gentle when you talk to her
2006-12-06 04:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by juliette j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with her? If you've been with her for a while, is this behavior something new or has she always been moody in this manner? If it's something new, you should definitely ask her what her deal is, especially if it's getting to you.
2006-12-06 04:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her. Nobody should be treated this way. I am a woman, yes, we have our moments, but we admit when we've done someone wrong or if we just have mood swings. If she's just playing, dump the biatch..you can do better than that.
2006-12-06 04:34:48 · answer #11 · answered by Trinity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋