I dated a woman (30 y.o.) several times. Things seemed to be going well...and had gone 'all the way' physically. We contacted each other usually by text 3 or 4 times a day, and hung out 5 or 6 times over about 3-4 weeks we dated. I really started liking her, and about a month ago she suddenly stopped texting or returning calls. This was about a month ago that she stopped contacting me or returning messages. I only dated her a month. Why am I constantly still constantly thinking of her a month later? Seems ridiculous!
2006-12-06 04:25:44 · 11 answers · asked by mu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah "absence makes heart grow fonder" is true in your case.Your feelings arent ridiculous.Its natural that you still think about her coz you truely miss her.You might have dated her for a month but she might have touched your heart in such a short time.She seems to have made an impact on you,thats why you cant get her off your mind.Dont worry,eventually you will be able to get over her.Walking past a woman whom you cared about will take sometime.Just chill,relax for a while.
2006-12-06 04:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been struck by the 'love bug.' It sounds really sweet. I suggest you get in touch (through whatever means--but face to face would be best) and ask her if you've done something to offend her so that you'll have an opportunity to make it right. It would also be helpful to find out what the problem is so you can find closure if nothing else. If she's still on your mind....she must be pretty special in your view.
2006-12-06 04:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thoughts and feelings are never ridiculous. She obviously made you feel young and fresh. There was something about her that brought out your authentic self. In order to minimize some of those feelings, you need to be able to create the same feelings about yourself and life. Meaning.. what was that she did, that brought the best out of you, that made you totally be yourself...
create that within your own space for ones self.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-06 04:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem ridiculous to me, and you don't seem crazy....If she wants to break it off, move on. You'll get over her in time.
Try to find out why the sudden stop...just for your piece of mind. There are other fish in the sea Dude.
2006-12-06 04:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Wil T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her breathe. It seems you guys got too close too fast. Give her a break and she will call or call or text her once in awhile. Too much of one another can get tooooooo boring, fast.
Give some time.
2006-12-06 04:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by Maria K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno.. there might have just been usmthing about you? maybe she realized your not the one? why you can't get over her is kind of common sense. you liked her a lot and she didnt feel the same. it happens to a lot of people before you know it she'll be off your mind! try to go out with some friends or just try to have the best time you can.....
2006-12-06 04:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many many of this kind people ,I think she just got tired of you ,if you didn't do anything wrong to her..Just forget about her and next time you try to ignore her ...That should be mutual right?
2006-12-06 04:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you were really in to her and it ended like hitting a wall.
take her actions as what she feels for you and don't waste time on her
I can understand wanting to know what happen and why she stopped calling..
sorry , I know its confusing but she isn't in to you like you were to her
good luck
2006-12-06 04:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new woman to take her place. Trust me I know what you are thinking...you're in love your probly not you need someone else to take her place.
2006-12-06 04:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by D.ROCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you had feelings for her and miss the intimacy with her. You need to accept that she has moved on and move on yourself.
2006-12-06 04:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋