well i don't want to loose the man i love what do i do yesterday i found out that he truly loves me and i don't know what to do iam leaving in 4 days and not coming back i don't want to leave cuz iam afraid i will loose him and they told me if i wait that he is probably going to go wih other girls and he says he is not ready to go out again becuz he has this real busy life and that he will go look for me but iam scared what do i do ? don't want to loose him i love him so much
2006-12-06 04:00:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are you - 14 or something?
LOSE not LOOSE
And only you can decide what to do
2006-12-06 04:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this very carefully! If you two are really in love you should be asking yourself very improtant questions.
1. Do you love him?
2.Would you like to spend the rest of your life with him?
If the answer is yes to these questions and he feels the same then you two should have some plan on the future. Either don't leave, take him with you, or plan on meeting in the future (aka long distance relationship). If you plan never to return then it will end. Trust me, true love is the most difficult thing to find in this world, and even though people say the pain will go away I still say they don't know what they are saying. You don't want any regrets in life. What will you do when you wake up one morning, stare at yourself in the mirror and say oh s**t what the hell did I do? Communicate with him and be true to yourselves. True love is precious, don't lose it.
2006-12-06 04:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by TheT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, I moved in the same situation are you are. I know it's hard to hear, but if it's the best thing for you, it will return to you. How old are you, is he? Depending on age, you all might be able to try a long distance thing for a while until you are old enough to move out on your own. Sometimes moving or unseen things that enter our lives are for the best. Enjoy the next 4 days with him. Talk alot with him and find out what both of you want. I know that in my situation i had, it was for the best, we both moved on and i am so happy. :( I'm sorry this is going on in your life right now, I know how scary and sad you are feeling. God is good and he will direct you! Keep your chin up! You never know what can happnen. :) Best wishes and BIG HUGZZZZ
2006-12-06 04:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by Brook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where in the heck are you going? long distance relationships do work, i am in one now...only about an hour away but still we dont see each other all that much!! if you guys both really want to stay together you will find a way to make it work and a way to see each other as much as you possibley can!! good luck!! its going to be hard at first but you will both adjust and i am sure what ever you decide will be for the best for both of you!!! :)
2006-12-06 04:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one of the main components of a relationship is trust. If you two can survive being separated for a while then you can probably survive most things in the future. Hope this helps.
2006-12-06 04:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by pitcher c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are meant to be together it will happen for you in the future. don't let anyone keep you from what you need to do in your life. you can still maintain contact with him by letters and phone calls. this will not be the end of your life. and if he tells you he will not be dating anyone else and truly loves you then you should trust that. don't worry about what these other people are saying. do whats best for you.
2006-12-06 04:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no chose but to leave IE job, school or parents moving then you got to do what you got to do. If he really loves you then he'll wait or come find you. If you're young you'll have a lot more opportunities for love!!!
2006-12-06 04:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 year old love is different frome 24 year old love which is different from 38 year old love and so forth.
Where ever you have to go...you need to go. exhange email and promises to one another and go. If he wants to go with another girl then he doesn't need you not to be in his hometown to do that.
No doubt about it - distance lover are difficult - but you belong to yourself and owe it to your self to go and trust him to wait. When the two of you take a vow to be committed to one another (by wedding) then maybe you alter your life plans at that point. for now.....let him go
2006-12-06 06:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Serenity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pationately tell him that you love him and that he is the only man on earth for you! (And that you will burn down his house if he ever goes out with any other girls.) Well, that's what I'd do if I were in your shoes. If I were a girl.
- Joel
2006-12-06 04:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by ☺ Joel ☺ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he truly loves you like he says he wont go out with anyone else but you. I know it sounds cliche but it's true..
2006-12-06 04:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move. It will all fade with time, the pain, the joy, the intense love. You'll be fine eventually.
2006-12-06 04:03:09 · answer #11 · answered by Toni E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋