If a man wants you....For all girls and guys to read?

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IF A MAN WANTS YOU

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Answer 1

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IF A WOMAN WANTS YOU

If a woman wants you, nothing can keep her away.
If she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay.
Stop making excuses for a woman and her behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a woman before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the woman was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like she is stringing you along, then she probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid women who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different men.
She didn't marry them when she pregnant,
Why would she treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from hers.
Maintain boundaries in how a woman treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a woman know everything. She will use it against you later.
You cannot change a woman's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make her feel she is more important than you are...even if she has
more education or in a better job. Do not make her into a quasi-god.
She is a woman, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a woman define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's woman.
Oh Lord! If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you.
A woman will only treat you the way you ALLOW her to treat you.
All women are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if she doesn't turn out to be Mrs. Right.
Make her miss you sometimes...when a woman always know where you are, and your
always readily available to her- she takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a woman who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep her in your radar but get to know others.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
Or a konk on the head to forget them. hahaha

Answer 2

This is great and its too bad more people won't read it and follow it.
All of this good advice is stuff we should know but forget as soon as a we are dating anyone.

Answer 3

this is pretty funny. im gonna try it. oh btw tell your mom ill pick her up at 8 but im really gonna get her like at 12 that would be funny right

Answer 4

I thank you for you question. I did not really see it as a question I saw it as valuable information,and actually got a few things from it that's worth looking into. Thanks alot.

Answer 5

While your diatribe was very good... this is an Question and Answer forum... not a pulpit.

Answer 6

I bet you've been through a lot of s**t to figure this out. Thanks for being strong for the rest of us.

Answer 7

wow this is long but cool!

Answer 8

Very True, Very True..........

Answer 9

Wow that is so true!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

Thanks for the public servace announcement