but your not dating, just meeting up casually, once youve slept with her, do you then want a relationship?
just curious!
im a girl asking and im not planning anything!lol xxx
2006-12-06 03:56:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like an "exclusive" relationship?
2006-12-06 03:56:54 · update #1
Maybe. Depends.
I have known people who have exclusive sex relationships. As long as they are having sex no sex with anyone else. If one does, current NSA relationship ends (or is on hold until both are freed up again).
2006-12-06 04:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think you can generalise on this as it depends on the person and also the age as when i was younger i prefered a fu*ck buddy than a relationship but as ive got older i want the relationship
2006-12-06 12:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by 2 good 2 miss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean a "friends with benefits" relationship or as its also known "Fu%k Buddy". This does not always lead to a relationship, your both busy, just want some fun, sometimes it can be done, sometimes, one will eventually want more. You need to talk about it, I read another way is to keep the meetings mostly sexual, dont date, just screw.
2006-12-06 12:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by budda m 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think most men enjoy this kind of meeting up purely for the casual sex - the girl is their "f*ckbuddy" or they are "friends with benefits". If you can detach intimacy from love within a loving relationship then this is for you, otherwise it is no substitute for a loving, caring relationship.
2006-12-06 12:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would want the relationship.... I havent found the right one yet.... So mostly meaning over night relationships..... But I do want a real exclusive relationship......
2006-12-06 12:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually yes !
Even if it was casual and just happened after a few drinks - you just have this feeling that you got to contact her again and talk - even if just to have sex, but it is usually something deeper than that.
But she will always have a special place. Difficult to acknowledge, because you don't want to be seen to be weak.
2006-12-06 12:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by medicine man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With most guys, if they can have the sex without the relationship they will. Relationships have to be worked at and they're not good at putting in the necessary effort.
2006-12-06 12:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't sleep with someone knowing that there going to just use you for sex if your hoping you'll be such a good shag that he'll want a relationship out of it.
2006-12-06 12:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you already have a relationship the question is do you both want to continue and perhaps deepen the relationship get to know each other better and see what develops
2006-12-06 12:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not at all! might come back for seconds, thirds, heck even hundreds. Doesn't mean I want a relationship!
2006-12-06 12:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋