We have been seeing each other for about 1 year, and i have not felt any pressure from him sexually, and I feel more connection with him than with my past boyfriends. Does this seem wrong?
2006-12-06 03:55:17 · 33 answers · asked by Nebel6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-06 13:53:20 · update #1
There is a huge age defference but I am almost in the same situation. There is an age differnce of three years between my boyfriend and I and everyone tells me I am in the wrong. He and I have been together for 4 months now and he means the world to me. I believe that if others could see where you and I were coming from and what we felt then maybe they wouldnt rais such a big fit about it. Back in the old days age was nothing more but a number and a way of life. My opinion about all of this is follow your heart and it will guid you but at the same time be careful in the descions in which you make. I am 17 and have always dated someone a few years older or a few years younger. I am now in a relationship where I am dating someone younger and people tell me everyday that its not right. They are nothing more but words and like the saying goes sticks and stones my break my bones but words will never hurt me. I will say this as a side note being with an older man may not always be a good thing because they may just want one thing from you not saying this is the case in your situation but still. All in all I have to say good luck and be careful. From Lee
2006-12-06 04:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in ur situation im 17 and i was dating a 23 year old and with a child which is even worse and yeah everone disapproved except my parents because they didn't know of course but trust me they are just pedophiles who want us to act mature like were their age why are they searching for us young girls because the ones their age can spot their phonie a** a mile away even closer and in the end dating them wasn't even worth it we are young and have 6 or 5 years younger than them and now it's our turn they already had their chance we can party do what we young people do and meet new people i am telling u from experience i know u might like him but in the end u will find someone better when the time comes.
2006-12-06 04:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by Liz21 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
age does not matter- when i was 15 my bf was 25. granted it did not work because i was too young. now my bf is 26 and i am 28, my sister 29 and her husband 26, my brther 34 and his wife 45, my aunt was 21 when she met my uncle 56...
do the math- and your ans should be age doesn't count. i have always been attracted to older guys because of their maturity, and once ur guy is not pressuring u into anything sexually or otherwise, that u do not want to do, i say live ur life to suit u.
there is no guarantee that it will be happily ever after but there is no guarantee with someone of any age. do not listen to others with their negativity. the important thing is once the 2 of u are happy and 1 yr is a lot longer that a lot of those same ppl who are ' of the same age'.
2006-12-06 04:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by stacy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey girl.Guess wat,I'm 16 too...I don't think it's wrong to have a boyfriend that is 23. Seriously, wat's wrong with that?Perhaps, you find that your boyfriend has much more maturity than guys of our age.It's true isnt it?So long as you and your boyfriend aren't going over the board, so why not stay true to this relationship? Be happy girl and I'll be happy for you too.
2006-12-06 04:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by waterpuddaliah 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is wrong for a man to be with a child of your age. It is against the law. It would be different if you were 18. What is wrong with this man going after a minor? Is he a dummy and can't find someone his own age? To may flags girl. You should stick to young men of your age.
2006-12-06 04:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Age ain't nothin but a number. No just kiding but, seriously girl...
You're 16. Wait a while... and think about why in the world a 23 year old would want a 16 year old... there is a HUGE maturity gap whether you think so or not.
2006-12-06 03:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
actually if yo do end up having sex, in most states the dude could go to jail ...statutory rape. What the heck is a 23 yr old hanging out with a high school kid? Call the police
2006-12-06 04:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Foss 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, I went out with a 23 year old when I was 15, I didn't really mind, just as long as he doesn't pressure you to do things you don't want, ohh,, he can also get in trouble with the law, be careful
2006-12-06 04:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
age doesn't matter unless you are under the age of consent. wait until you're seventeen unless the age of consent in your state is sixteen or unless your parents are okay with it. the state can file suit against your boyfriend even if your parents consent and he'll be listed as a known sex offender for the rest of his life if convicted.
2006-12-06 04:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well this is a big difference becaiuse he's in full party mode and you're not even out of high school yet. I'd stay away form a guy this much older there;s a big difference in maturity
2006-12-06 03:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋