I always liked older guys, I am 19, but i really always feel that i have more common interests with men, who r in their mid or late twenties mostly. But on the other hand i have this romantic fantasy to share my first time with a husband. But guys at these ages are experienced, so waiting for months or years is like an execution 4 them. Moreover, even if they r ready to wait, anyway it would take much time to become good in it. So, i wonder, guys, if u got a pure wife, would u feel "ok" that she is terrible in bed and do u find it nice to go through all the new experiences with her? Why yes or why no?
2006-12-06 03:51:34 · 5 answers · asked by JUSTGIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having received some answers, i am even more messed, because if women really cannot be terrible in bed, then why everybody so obssessed because of the lack of experience?
2006-12-06 04:37:21 · update #1
ahhh well im far to old but for me i would not be worried one way or the other to be with a "pure" lady --- the lack of experience would not be a concern and i doubt you would be terrible in bed ---- its just something im not worried about
2006-12-06 03:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who is willing to wait, will not only feel okay..knowing its your "First Time" but will Love and more importantly "Respect" you for making the right choice to save your self for marriage.
When you give your self to this man.. in the context of marriage... being "Good" or "Terrible" in bed wont even matter. Sex is a wonderful thing no doubt... but it is the intimacy and love you will share that makes it truly Wonderful.
Being nervous is to be expected, but don't worry. Your body was made for sex. i.e.. continuing the human species. Given a little practice... which you will practice a lot... you and your man will be equally gratified.
By the way.... even if the man has some experience.. you will still need to teach him how to satisfy your needs... Most men are about getting it done and are not programed on how to please a woman.
Keep waiting for the "Right Guy" Marry Him.. Then Enjoy giving him lessons
2006-12-06 04:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by Friend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, not all guys in the age range you're talking about are 'experienced', although they may tell you that out of peer pressure, status, or just because they're stupid. There are plenty of guys in that age range who won't pressure you for sex whether for religious reasons, shyness, or whatever.
If that's what you want, you shouldn't settle for less.
Also, how do you know you'd be 'terrible in bed' (and how would he if he has the same standards as you do).
Bottom line: you can find him if you want to, but it's easier to be, well, 'easier'.
I wish you the best of luck, and I hope this helps.
2006-12-06 04:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a girl, but everyone is kinda scared of me cuz i am more like a guy....and i taught my other half everything she knows about kissing and sex......so i think it is kinda empowering to be able to help a person in that way, and besides you get what you want cuz you tell them what to do, namely the things you like. I think it is a great idea. But two pure people together is the best way to go. Good job staying pure!!!!! I am proud most people can't do that.
2006-12-06 03:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by mybizyagottaknowthat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 if the guy loves and wants to be with you he will wait with you until you are comfortable and ready for you first time.... and i dont think woman can be bad in bed... all you have to do is lay there and the guy will do all the work.... unless you want to do the work.... you dont need to worry about it though, it isnt rocket science
2006-12-06 03:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋