I know he loves me but he has gotten into some hardships and he says he wants to get through it by himself. What do i do?
2006-12-06 03:48:48 · 21 answers · asked by Flower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Accept it, and move on. There is really nothing else you can do. Unfortunately, he has made the decision and you don't have a choice but to accept it. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-06 03:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes--you should move on and accept it. It doesn't seem like you have any choice in this matter. If you decide to wait it out, how long are you prepared to wait? Couples face struggles in life, that's just the way it is, and if he wanted you by his side during the time he deals with his 'hardships' he is aware that he has that option. He made the choice to go it alone--let him do so. Focus on yourself instead and you'll eventually sort it all out. Good Luck to you.
2006-12-06 11:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you hear of this saying: "If you love someone set them free. If they don't come back then they weren't really yours in the first place." Basically, if he is having personal problems and does not want be in a relationship, then unfortunately you need to let him go. If he manages to work through his issues and wants you back in his life, then great. If not, moving on is best even when right now it hurts now. For you, just take it one day at of time. There other great guys out there! Good luck!
2006-12-06 11:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by krw65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
It takes two to make a relationship work.
If he going to run away be cause he came into some hardship Then this is not a relationship.
You deserve better then this. Someone who will stay with you for better or worth.
Take care of your self.
2006-12-06 11:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy the book "He's just not that into you" and move on. Why want a person that doesn't want you. If he loved you he'd stay and you would both work it out. and if he does love you, why would you want him back if he cannot stay with you when the hard times come. Life IS hard and then you have some happiness thrown in around the hard times.
2006-12-06 11:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by sushimaven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen to me. Honestly, I think the reason that guys tell us they want to go through it alone is because they are embarrassed of their problems. Try to talk to him again and see if there is anything that you can do for him, if not, you have to live your life...move on.
2006-12-06 11:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lacey C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back away from the man.
Give him the space he needs. If he is the right one for you in time all will work out. If not it wasn't meant to be. Pushing and pressuring him will not help your situation. Respect his wishes and give him time.
2006-12-06 11:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by jbenishmlt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, move on. If he said he wants to "get through it by himself" he has already moved on. Sorry kiddo.
2006-12-06 11:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what he says and do what he asks. If he wanted your help getting throught whatever it is he would have asked. Now let him be and move on.
2006-12-06 12:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt want to be in a relationship right now then let him go so he can have his space and then maybe a little bit down the road hell be ready for a relationship with you again.anyway good luck!i wish u the best!:)
2006-12-06 11:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋