how do a divorce single mother (with children) to tell a man who is unmarried that she is interested in him. it is difficult for her to start a conversation because of her present suitation.
2006-12-06 03:48:04 · 14 answers · asked by jokerpro2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On the first date, when he comes to pick you up, bring the kids and say you couldnt find a baby sitter.
2006-12-06 03:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to what he likes to do in his spare time. There has to be something you share a mutual interest in.
Then when the time is right, start a conversation about it. Mention that you would love to go see the classic car show (or whatever it is).
Make it a very "light" date the first time, like two friends interested in the same thing. Pay your own way. See what happens from there.
2006-12-06 03:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to see yourself as a single woman, not a divorced woman with children.
Sure, you have kids and a relationship didn't work out. I'm sure he's had some relationships that didn't work out too. That's all you're dealing with.
The problem will be the way you're seeing yourself.
To answer your question, you act cool and flirt.
2006-12-06 03:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know excalty how you feel I'm to a single mother (w/children) & I'm finding out that being honest with a man these day's are very hard & mostly there playing games. My advise to her would be very honest with him & start things out slow be friends first & slowly bing the subject up don't rush into it but evenatully he will need to know but for her she needs to make how & when she wnats to tell him, everyone can give you advise but she needs to think about how she feels & look in her heart before jumping.
2006-12-06 04:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by mssassy0104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 12:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by stever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess it depends on what your motives are. Be more secure in who you are. Dont be concerned. You dont blurt out your life's history in the first sentence of a conversation. You both need to get to know each other before interest in each other can begin to form. You may not like him at all, once you actually begin to speak with each other.
2006-12-06 03:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are they friends? They would have to start off as friends first...I was separated from my husband for 9 months when I met my soon to be husband. I have children and he doesn't...it just happend that way...I thought he would have dropped me after I told him my situation but he didn't...and he didn't care about how his family thought about me either...b/c they did talk about how I was still married and have 2 kids...but now that my divorce is almost final and they met me and my kids, they accepted us and love us...it works out just don't push it...We've been together for over a year now...the kids love him...
2006-12-06 03:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friends first and let time tell. if you are already friends then just bring it up. tell him that you are interested in him but you dont want it to ruin your friendship and make it weird. see what he says, atleast you put it out there.
2006-12-06 03:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by kellieghr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask his e-mail and tell him that way, or just smile and complement him let him know you like him but not over do it.
2006-12-06 03:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by albert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say be upfront and honest with him...and if it works out great if not then he isnt worth your time...
2006-12-06 03:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋