me and this guy have been going out on and oof for 4 years. he has cheated on me twice but ive forgave him for it.so this last time that we went out it was for 2 weeks and then at the hockey game last friday he said he didnt want to go out anymore.but i talked to him last night and he told me he was sorry 3 times and it sounded like he meant it. and he said he only said that because he was drunk.so i forgive him and i think im gonna meet up with him tonight and well maybe talk so if he wants me to give him another chance should i go for it??and i love him with all my heart!
2006-12-06 03:46:09 · 13 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful hun, if he has cheated twice before, he will do it again. cheaters never stop cheating. the choice is yours, but watch your heart, you can forgive him but you will never be able to trust him the way you did before and that will always put a damper on your relationship. trust is one of the most important parts of any relationships, without it you have nothing. so just be careful and think about it. if he really loved you he never would have cheated on you in the first place, being drunk is no excuse.
2006-12-06 03:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by dini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him? So what? You're in a lousy relationship with a guy who screws around whenever he gets the urge... trust me, you know about a couple of times, but there have been many more you don't know about. Being drunk isn't an excuse. Drinking may lower inhibitions, but it just makes it easier to do what you want to do, it doesn't make you do something totally out of character.
If you have so little self-respect that you'll keep taking a bum back so that you don't have to be alone, fine, stay. Just don't bring any kids into the world while you're with this loser.
2006-12-06 04:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you love him coz your relationship will not be for 4 years if you don't. But come to think of it he's taking you for granted. I think you should end that relationship. Didn't your boyfriend see what he's doing? You love him and then he'll do anything he wants if if he did something that will break your heart he'll just say sorry? of course he will sound sincere coz he wants you to believe him but don't be a fool. There is someone much better that's meant for you. Don't waste your time on believing and thinking that your relationship is for the better. He done it not once but thrice and i bet if you continue he'll do it forever. Be wise OK? go girl!
2006-12-06 03:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by aNGie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 03:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child, please! What is wrong with you??? Stop being a human doormat and get rid of this guy. If you meet up with him tonight, which you shouldn't, kick him in the balls and tell him what a loser he is. Then tell him to get the hell out of your life and stop wasting your time. There are so very many men out there. You will find another one, probably without even trying. Heck, you will probably find another loser, if that's what you want, but get rid of this one. Jeez!
2006-12-06 03:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's using you, just use your best deiscretion, dont just get into bed with him.. he needs to know your not just another girl and you dont want to be used just to get some..
Make sure hes not jsut there for that.. and love him and be happy if thats not what he just wants.
2006-12-06 03:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with badkitty_1. You should stop being a doormat for Carson!!!! He doesn't deserve you!! You are too special to be stepped on again! Luv ya
Bex
2006-12-06 04:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Bex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you truly love him then go for it. but be careful because once a cheater always a cheater. so just keep that in mind. tell him you love him and you dont wanna go there that all over again!!!
2006-12-06 03:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by little_attractive_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think i would. if he break up for stupid reason or because he was "drunk" and cheats on you than he doesn't really feel the same way you feel for him.
You should move on and find some one that does appreciates you not one that takes you for granted!!!!!
2006-12-06 03:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has cheated twice?? If you love him like you say you do go for it but he might cheat again remeber that!
2006-12-06 03:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Camden M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋