i will date anyone who treat me right and with respect. a few of them are black. my grandpa is not racist he just dont believe in whites and blacks mixing b/c of the children growing up. i think thats dumb if u ask me. well i like this guy and he just so happens to be black. i dont want to sneak around. wut should i do?
2006-12-06 03:42:05 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ brunette_babe ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hunnie listen my parents are the same way i only date BLACK GUYS i dont know why im just attracted to them. I wouldnt say my parents are RACIST but they dont like it when im dating a black guy. But you know what they are not going to tell me who i can and can not date b/c im going to date who i feel like dating.And if i end up marrying a black guy and they still dont approve of that well i guess they dont have to be part of my life.
P.S i hoped i helped you and also let you know that your not the only person who is going threw the same thing ok!
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2006-12-06 03:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Eryn aka Miami♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do plenty of men and women have this situation? When I was once 18, I was once allowed to look any person I desired too. I bought married to a person who was once 36 a couple of months after I became 18. I am 20, and he's 39 now. My mom hates him, however my father loves him. You are a grown up. You are competent of constructing your possess choices. Your mom and dad don't seem to be watching at how mature you're, they're nonetheless seeing their youngster woman. Parents will continuously be that manner. If you favor him, do not permit your mom and dad get in the way in which. I were there, what you'll do, is take a seat down and feature an grownup dialog approximately it. Tell them the way you believe approximately the fellow, inform them that you're going to continuously be their daughter, however that you're not their "youngster woman". If you act like a grown up, they'll see you as a grown up. Good good fortune with all. OK, your mom and dad are WAY over protecting. If they nonetheless have you ever on curfew, than there's some thing incorrect with them. I did not have a curfew while I was once 18. You particularly have got to talk on your mom and dad approximately all of this.
2016-09-03 11:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have regular contact or do you live with your grandpa if you don't then you don't have to mention it to him. You can tell him that you are dating a guy but you don't have to tell him that he is black. By doing this you are not sneaking around as you have told him that you are dating someone you just haven't mentioned that he is black. providing that the guy is treating you right and you like him that is all that really matters
2006-12-06 03:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U grandpa can't tell u who to date. U date who u like, because ur the one stuck with them, and it should be at least someone u like. Most elderly people don't believe in mixing of races. But it is cool, so just be happy with ur choice.
2006-12-06 03:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are & if you live with grandpa. I think you should do what is right for you cause love has no color.Grandpa sounds like he might still be stuck in old days so if you live with him you have to respect his wishes but me myself I couldn't respect someone that didn't want to see me happy .
2006-12-06 03:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your grandpa and explain to him why you like the dude and maybe hell relize how you feel and he'll understand it doesnt matter if their white or black like im mexican and im datting a white guy and its going great hope thats the same w/ you and dont sneek around GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-06 03:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Pink Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know to you grandpa isnt a racist but he is .god created us all so we should all love one another there is bad in every race.follow your heart .and trust me nothing happens to the kids i have two nieces that are mixed with black ,white and mexican and besides being the cutest they are all very happy .
2006-12-06 03:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by ANGEL L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are but you date as you please as long as your not dating grandpa what the ***** does it matter and no not everyone in your family knows whats good for you. Grandpa will have to bite his tounge until he realizes his lost his grand baby. Sorry to hear ignorance still lives.
2006-12-06 03:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell grandpa that his opinion is important, but you have to make the choices that are right for you and he needs to respect that.
2006-12-06 03:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lacey C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 1/2 and 1/2 and grown up. What's the problem with biracial kids when they grow up? Because it hasn't happened to me yet.
2006-12-06 03:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by FavoredbyU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋