I started dating someone whom I have known for several years. We got along very well and things went quickly. We agreed to slow down a little bit but then she got very distant and then broke things off with me. She said that there just is not something right but she doesn't know what it is, and every time I try to talk to her about this she just pushes me away again. She has had several boyfriends that have not treated her very well and I am one of those really nice guys. Should I continue to try to contact her and keep letting her know I am interested or should I just say screw it and forget about her?
2006-12-06 03:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by waitingnervously 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all let me just say,YOU ARE A GREAT GUY! i love senstive guys like you,guys should follow your footsteps but been too sensetive is not gone get u anywhere so u got 2come out strong sometimes.Some women like when guys chase after them and some women like to chase guys u seem 2b the first type of guy but dont wory its normail!You know what if she is not willing to spend her time with you then move on! i think ur just making ur self fell beter by making the other guys she was with an excuse and if she is really that in to you,she will come around!Maybe she thinks all guys are the same.if u rili like her like and want things too work out,convine her that u are not one of them guys.Give ha her space!She might be looking for a romantic guy so suprise her show up @ her door step with her favourit flower and chocloate,it always works!!then she might just be willing to give u a chance!!
gud luck! :-)
2006-12-06 04:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by dem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls like a bad boy, and when a decent guy comes along like yourself they get bored with the safety and love you provide becuase they are used to being treated like ****! Not your fault....you seem a great person and there are plenty of girls out there who will jump at the chance to be with a guy who will treat them right and give them love.
Som girls love a bad boy they winge and moan that they hate being treated like crap, but really they are so used to it that a relationship without it is boring! You havent done anything wrong, I think you should stop chasing and move on, Its hard but it appears she is a fool to loose you! Chin up! x
2006-12-06 11:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don´t have to forget her, if you really lover her you don´t, just keep your distance a little bit, but try to be for her when ever she needs you. Soon or later she will realize that you are the good one.
Good luck from Mexico
2006-12-06 11:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by oso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone set them free, if they come back its ment to be.
she's just scared of getting hurt again. let her know you care and give her some space
2006-12-06 11:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by ladybaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU HONESTLY SEEM LIKE NICE PERSON MAYBE YOU SHOULD PUT YOU FOCUS ON SOMEONE WHO IS WORTH YOUR TIME
2006-12-06 11:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by allurluv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋