What do men honestly perfer?

Question

Im a nice size 5 slim and cute, my friend is a little bit chubbier.. She gets more men then i do, should gain weight or what? We could honestly be sisters so it has nothing to with our looks?

Answer 1

Obviously your very happy with yourself and conifident, dont let what think change the way you veiw yourself. Different men like different things, you'll find someone who like you for you! I wish i was a size 5!!!!!!

Answer 2

Can be honest?

Men have no idea what you women mean when you say your a size 5 (or whatever). We also don't care.

If she is truly just a little bit chubbier, it might be more about where that extra fat is located, in her breast, in her butt, that might make a difference. Assuming that you two are exactly the same in every way only she has a couple of pounds more than you, than the weight is not rarely a factor, most guys won't notice. Chances are she has nothing non-physical about her that draws the boys to her, maybe she is more outgoing, and talkative and you are shy.

Answer 3

Hi,
Gaining weight might not be such a good idea and sadly you're stuck with what you've got unless you decide to go under the needle.
Now please forgive me if I get a little raw here but all men love:

Huge boobs
Sizeable buns
Tight twats
Flat stomachs
Long legs
and many of them have a thing for long hair although they don't care to admit it.

If you try to gain weight , it might not work out the way you want.
And honey, there are tons of people who would kill to be size 5 just so they can walk on the beach in a bikini and not worry.

Forget about gaining weight and thank God daily for who you are.

Answer 4

Stay the way you are there are different strokes for different folks, so change your hair or attitude, you can always dress to make yourself look healthier in certain areas but it is a chore trying to do the opposite. Your friend may just be more approachable, sometimes I think that is the case with men. Keep your size.

Answer 5

different men have different tastes. probably you are only exposed to guys who prefer the chubbier type. but don't let that form your decision on whether or not to gain weight. u need to be comfortable with yourself. once ure happy with the way u are, u will find someone to love u as u are.

u need to gain confidence in urslf rather than weight. i am a slim person myself but in my country most guys prefer' meat' to hold on to. but i found my love still.

Answer 6

Different men like different things, so apparently you're hanging around with guys who prefer your friend to you for whatever reason. She may be more outgoing, friendlier, or seem more approachable. If she seems to be more receptive to the guys that may be why they're more attracted to her. Be yourself, because someone will like who you are.

I think that we (men) also prefer someone who will listen, not cheat on us, be appreciative of what we do for you, and understand the fact that sometimes we just don't get you. Respect is also important to us.

I hope this helps, and don't give up (and stop comparing yourself to your friend!).

Answer 7

Truth is men like a little to hold on to. I was a size 120 and I'm 5'9 i gained 20lbs now guys love me for my height that good.

Answer 8

I would go for the chubbier girl because that's what I like. I love something to grab. What size is she?

Answer 9

LISTEN DARLIN' LOOKS AIN'T EVERYTHING. PERSONALITY GOES A LONG WAY. YOU MAY COME OFF AS A BIG OL BRAT WHEN YOU FRIEND COMES OFF AS A FUN PERSON. I DON'T KNOW ABOUT THE REST OF THE GUYS, BUT I WOULD RATHER SPEND PLENTY OF TIME WITH A FUN GIRL THAN WITH ONE WHO IS, OH SAY, A BIXCH. ALSO WEIGHT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT EITHER. SOMETIMES FAT GIRLS ARE MORE FUN THAN SKINNY ONES!

Answer 10

Personality, height, age, humor and so on. It may be that the people who are dating her know she easy. Give it time the right person will come along and be yours and put all the rest to shame or are you out for the kill and braking hearts person?