Do you count the guys you sleep with on vacation, when you tell a man how many partners you've had?
or do you only count your Boyfriends?
2006-12-06 03:18:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh no! Most of the time it's just exaggeration, but some of the time the number of men a woman sleeps with is low enough to count so she can tell you honestly.
2006-12-06 03:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, I thought that i had told my man everyone, but then realised that there was 1 or 2 that I had forgot about.
I dont think you should place stress on your partner to tell you everyone they have slept with. Women are judged on how many partners they have even these days, and this is unfair, men sleep with how many and whoever they want.
The old saying is true "men want a slut in the bedroom and a mother int the kitchen"
but in todays world this isnt always possible,
try not to be too hard
2006-12-06 11:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by carrienicholson23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that has penetrated counts. Sleeping with a guy on vacation is still sleeping with a guy. You count every person. "Partners" doesn't mean boyfriends.
2006-12-06 11:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You count everyone. Even flings on vacation. That's the most honest number.
However, if you're too embarrassed about the number, why not say something like, "Well, I've had X serious boyfriends in the last X years" and hope that he assumes that that's all you had.
2006-12-06 11:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you telling him that in the first place?? If what you've done in your past matters...then you'd better find a different man....really isn't any of his business!
Second....why are you sleeping with strangers on vacation??? Good way to catch diseases!!
Should learn some self respect
2006-12-06 11:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I count them all. The good experiences, the bad ones, the regretful ones, everything counts. Sex is sex.
Though I have heard that women often lie and underestimate their number of partners. And men tend to overestimate. Not sure how true that is though.
2006-12-06 11:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lost In Vast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every girl/woman is different. My best friend and I count every guy but just for fun. My fiance asked me once how many guys I've slept with and I answered him honestly. But I wouldn't tell him voluntarily.
2006-12-06 11:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by WiccaWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to tell a guy about how many men you have been with....is that supposed to be a way of appearing sexy?....i think not but it's a sure way to get rid of your boyfriend lol
2006-12-06 11:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, EVERY PERSON that you have slept with counts.
Not just boyfriends, or not just "vacation buddies".
You would be lieing if you said "oh I only slept with one person...except for the 12 i met on my trip to cabbo..."
2006-12-06 11:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell anyone that number, but if you insist on telling, then it is every man with whom you've had sex.
2006-12-06 11:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋