My mom ruined my relationship with my bf. And now he is scared to get back with me. My mom wants to meet him, but after the phone call situation, he is skeptical. What do I do I still love this boy and I don't want him to leave me.
2006-12-06 03:15:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are young and sound desperate.... relax, thats not attractive to guys!
B/F's are not going to stick around as long as mom... and if he loves you back he'll be a man and sit down respectfully with your mother.
SHE'S YOUR MOTHER
Just Breathe and go with it... whats going to happen is going to happen, but your mom has been around a lot longer than you and understands things you couldn't possibly yet. Your mom wants the best for you.
2006-12-06 03:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him meet your mom. If he really cares for you then he'll put up with it. If he leaves you because your mom is being difficult then your better off. Eventually he would have to meet her if you two were to spend the rest of your lives together right? Why not now?
Your mom has been there for you since you were born and for the rest of your life, let this boy prove to you how he will be there for you no matter what as well.
2006-12-06 11:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by April L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your Mom. Not sure what happened but it is much better to have your Mom happy with your relationships than unhappy with them.
Sometimes parents know more than we think. When we are young we are often blinded by infatuation which can cause us to make devastating life mistakes.
Ask Mom what her problems are with the guy and perhaps try to find someone else.
2006-12-06 11:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all how did your mom ruin it if she wants to meet him and if you really care about him then you should be with him your mom shouldn't come between you and the one you love!
2006-12-06 11:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by lizzie_08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wish i knew what happened in the phone call, but you and him should go have some alone time and get back with him before you make him meet your mom. talk to him and make him feel good.
2006-12-06 11:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by flyboy7683 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask your boyfriend and you mom out to coffee at a neutral restaurant. That way, if she annoys him or he annoys her, they can leave without it being too much of a hassle. And coffee can last as long as you want it to: Five minutes or three hours.
I hope you guys can work something out. Good luck!
2006-12-06 11:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold on, if you are truly in love then I have found out that it doesn't matter what the loved one thinks of your parents. Tell your mom this and have her understand that.
2006-12-06 11:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does your mom want to meet him??
2006-12-06 11:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by sensa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain, my dad has chased away 2 boyfriends that i reall.y cared about. In fact, he doesnt like the one im with now, but i dont care i love him and he's soooo good to me.
Anyway, back to your question:
I would have a talk with your mom, tell her that you care about him and tell her about all his good qualities and the things he does for you.
If she can see that he cares about you and you care about him she should agree to atleast meet him, talk to him or get to know him.
2006-12-06 11:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone let him go if he comes back it was meant to be don't push it!And maybe your mom see's something you don't trust me when I tell you this sometimes you have to go with your mothers instincts she has been there done that.
2006-12-06 11:20:18 · answer #10 · answered by HARWOODH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋