ok me and my best friend met these two guys that are best friends. me and the guy dat i liked have been together for 3 weeks now but her and her guy still hvnt started going out. i mean we do double date n everything but lke dey dnt call each other bf n gf yet. my bf is a complete sweetheart and i care about him lke crazy the same way he cares about me, but we dont love each other yet, and we're both comfortable admitting that to each other. but my best friend said i love you to her man, 2 weeks after meeting him. surprisingly enough, he said it right back. now ive tried to convince my friend that this isnt eternal love but she doesnt want to listen to me. how do i show her that it isnt because if she thinks it is and something goes wrong, its going to hurt her even worse, plus im getting annoyed of hearing her go my man loves me, urs doesnt. immature? yes it is.
2006-12-06 03:08:11 · 6 answers · asked by sweethyedreamer213 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You and your best friends are not twins. You are individuals. You don't have to do everything exactly the same way. Your best friend may have to learn some things the hard way. Be there for her if disappointment rares it's ugly head.
2006-12-06 03:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point the only thing you can do is to continue to be a friend to her. She will have to go through this in order to learn. As far as the immature part, as a friend you should set her straight on that and if it continues you may need to gradually put some space between the two of you.
2006-12-06 11:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters stop the double dating because the insecurity in her situation is going to drift into yours and mess up your good thing. Dont give up your friendship with her or him with his friend. But it is time to fly solo my friend. Right now there is nothing you can tell her because she is not hearing you but when she falls please be there for her. Love is not a word that can be thrown out after 2 wks. and yes she is being immature. Congratulations on your 3 wks. and good luck. Remember though friendship is very important - so don't lose a friend because of a guy.
2006-12-06 11:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by Feline05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a friend listen to her and be there when it all gos wrong people have to learn there own lessons you know how things are going wiith your relationship so why would what she says bother you
2006-12-06 11:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psalm 32:11
Rejoice in the LORD and be glad, you rightteous sing, all you who are upright in heart!
2006-12-06 11:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to say that yall need to tale it slow and don't rush things because if she does then she might end up pregnet
2006-12-06 11:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋