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Question

ok im a christian teen in need of help. living in this world can be so hard sometimes. i got sucked into the influence of the way the world views as to how we should look. right now im recovering from bulimia. but i have a few other problems to. i want to get back on track with God. but i feel i can't because im afraid to let him down again. a friend introduced me to masterbation a while back. i can't seem to stop now. how can i stop and get back on track with God.

Answer 1

You can still masturbate and believe in God.
Just make sure he's not looking.

Answer 2

Dear Dreamer

I know that it is hard for one to go of the narrow path. Have been there several times. I even believed that there is no such being as a God. Later on I found Him again. I kept praying and asking for guidance. It took time, but He knows how long to wait before giving one the right answer.

I hope that you can understand that there is nothing wrong with masturbation, only if it becomes your only entertainment and you move away from your social life. Masturbation is healthy and you can practice it, but don't let it be all you life for angel. Then you have got a problem.

Please start talking to God. Ask Him to help you stay on track. When temptation comes your way ask God to help you look the other way. There is a lot of seduction in this world. And by ignoring it, you achieve the crown of being able to live your life.

Read PS91. If you feel lonely and rejected at times.
Read PS23. God helps you when ever He can.
Keep your Bible open at PS91, it really helps.
Believe me, i still do it.

Good Luck angel.
Hope you keep good.
Remember you are an individual and a wonderful person, everyone of us is special in our own unique way.

Best wishes
Xena

Answer 3

Oh how many times I thought that,,I am 39 years old and now just alittle over a year ago did I see Jesus for who He is..I also did not want to disappoint God either so therefore would fall back into sin..It is when you see Jesus came and gave you a free gift,,you didnt earn this gift from anything you done..It don't matter how bad you was and it don't matter that you fall over and over GOD STILL LOVES YOU..Jesus never will condemn you..for things you done,,it is free will..now we all will have to get what I call whoppings sometimes,,but when God corrects He does it with such love that you want to change..Feel free to email me if you need more advice..I know all to well about trying to fit in a world where people feel you should be perfect..Noone is perfect and you are going to make so many mistakes,,I can't even begin to tell you,,but don't get your eyes off the Lord..No matter what you do as soon as you notice you are going the wrong direction pray and ask the Lord for strenght,,He will give it to you..He will give you knowledge and wisdom too just ask..I will pray for you and I am here if you need any help...

Answer 4

Whenever you feel the urge to do this, start reading your Bible and praying to God for help to overcome it. If you have access to a Bible Concordance, pick a topic and do some research concerning a single topic. Read everything the Bible says about it before going on to the next topic. Get to know the Bible characters and what makes them say and do the things they do. All of these things will help you draw closer to God.

Stay away from the person who introduced you to this. They are not your friend. One of the fruitages of the holy spirit is self-control. The more you use it, the more you will be able to draw upon it when you need it.

Remember that all of us are sinful and we let God down every day. Do the best you can and NEVER GIVE UP. He who endures to the end is the one who will be saved. God bless you.

Answer 5

Well, try and cut the roots to all things that make you alone and sad. I mean, a lot of times, we just resort to things that are not satisfying at all just because we don't know what else to do with our time. If you start educating yourself by taking courses, and classes (with other people) then that'll help you focus on other positive things. Also, try and get a job somewhere where you actually like what you're doing. Then, you'll have something to look forward to everyday. Or join a group or club or some kind of community organization that does things for others. And to get close to God, reading will help, and prayer straight from the heart. Ask Him to Guide you and DON'T give up! :) And don't overlook the small signs. We often do that - but take in things around you that He is trying to tell you. :)

Answer 6

The best friend you can have is the one who knows you for who you really are and who likes you anyway. The person you don't have to pretend for or dress up for or try to pretend to be someone you're not.

That would be God. Who knows your weaknesses as well as your strengths, who knows your failures but who also knows how much you are trying to be better.

Who waits for you to take the first step, so your own personal freedom is not weakened. God respects your free will - wants you to turn to Him, but waits for you to do it. God won't force you - but will always welcome you when you start, and once you've started, will jump in to help

Take a chance. Make a commitment. Start - whatever that means for you. Pray - read Scripture or a religious book. Talk to people who DO believe (and try to stay away from the crazies - don't worry about changing the world, just focus on changing you.)

Don't get hung up on details. Masturbation isn't great - it can distract from other things, and puts too much emphasis on fantasy. But it's also not the end of the world. Don't sweat it - work on giving it up for healthier activities and if you slip, keep going and focus on the positive stuff you do do.

God's always there. Go for it.

Answer 7

If you believe Jesus died for your sins and rose three days later. Then Jesus has saved you from every sin you have commited in the past present and future. Satan wants to whisper in your ear that you'll never be able to be a Christian because you do bad things. Hello we all do bad things, that is why we need a savior in Jesus Christ the ultimate sacrifice. To doubt Jesus that he cannot cover your sins with what He did on the cross for you is a lie. He loves you so much. Don't listen to the enemy whisper thoughts like that. You need to get into the word of God the Bible. They make wonderful teen Bibles for your age. Masterbation is a lust issue. Please get into God's word and maybe a good youth group. You are not the only one who has issues like this. God Bless you.

Answer 8

I am a Christian. I don't know that masturbation in itself is a sinful thing. If you are using things such as porn or dirty magazines, then it is a sin - adultery, in your mind you lust. When you feel the need, maybe you should ask God to put on your heart if this is wrong to do. If you feel like doing it, you could always pick up the Bible and read God's Word instead. If you listen closely as you read, he will speak to you.

Answer 9

Do you belong to a church? I would definately get into a good bible teaching church and youth group. You need to be around other believers. They will also hold you accountable...and be encouraging and keep your mind off of those things....to surround yourself with the love of God..and things of God. Continue to pray that the Lord would lead some good christians in your life, and join a youth bible study. These are great ways to strengthen your relationship with Christ....and keep following Him.

Answer 10

The idea that you have messed up too much for God is a lie. God is never far from you and you can never mess up so much that His love for you will ever be less. We all fall, you just pick yourself up by praying to God and studying the Bible everyday, even if it's just a verse or two. You will struggle, but if you have faith, and don't expect perfection from yourself, you and God will be just fine. He thinks you're beautiful and He never expected you to be perfect.

Answer 11

Start praying to the heavenly Father if you feel like this is wrong but other many not it depend on you and what your religion belief is all about , Remember God love you and have you on his mind alway no matter what you do
just believe you are his child and no one can take you from the heavenly father no matter what they tell you and how they tell you he doesn't care for you he does,God love the righteous and the unrighteous. No matter what they do. Fear no evil know you are forgiving ask and that all you have to do. And forget about the sin. I just like that.