and i really really like him but he hasnt asked me out on a date. i think he may be wary of my past serious relationship. i dunno.
i do want to take things further with him but im worried cause i really really do like him.
i know you can never tell if some guys will stick around after sex whether your dating or not, but im not a person who likes to sleep around. i like it to mean something. ive only slept with one person and that was my ex from my serious relationship.
what should i do?should i just go with how a feel?
i dont want to come over as easy, obviously he doesnt know that ive only been with one guy.
im 25 hes 29.
2006-12-06 03:03:25 · 15 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive only kissed this guy
2006-12-06 03:04:31 · update #1
Just ask him how he feels. You gotta put youself out there to find out.
2006-12-06 03:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds exactly the situation I am in. Same thing 25 been with only one guy and serious relationship... Good luck I am trying to figure it all out myself.. But I actually have dated a few men since the breakup and it is not getting an easier so tell him go with your heart because I kick myself after things go bad and I never told him... Be honest and go for it what do you have to lose...
2006-12-06 03:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by WHY!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your body is a gift not a right. You shouldn't sleep with him t okeep him, or becasue it is what he wants, because how will you feel if he then leaves you after you havehad sex. Every person has different feelings about intimacy and relationships, he should like you for you, not because of your body.
2006-12-06 05:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wing it. That's the only way you can do this. Just play every time by ear and if you want to go for it, then go for it. If not, then don't. Don't over analyze things, that will mess it all up.
2006-12-06 03:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying so much! i guess you want to sleep with him? or is it just that you think it'll become more serious if you do? there's no guarantee on that one. just wait and see how things go and don't rush into something you're not sure about. good luck x
2006-12-06 03:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in your same position.......no joke very similar. i had only been with one person, and i liked this other. well he seem interested in me to, or so i thought. after we had a little fun he left to a new girl. my advice: unless you really feel something for him then dont even mess with it. talk it out with him and let him know how you feel
2006-12-06 03:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ brunette_babe ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make the first move and ask him out, if he shows no interest then move on.
FYI guys are not into mind ganes if they like you they will make a move.
2006-12-06 03:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things will happen if they are meant to. You can't force anything because if it happens it will happen naturally.
You say you have kissed, well that must show you that he is, at least, interested.
How is your friendship after the kiss? thats a beginning....tread carefully and don't get hurt
2006-12-06 06:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by Pacific Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard as it may seems i think you really need to ask him whats going on....
maybe text or email him if you find that easier. it may be that he would also prefer to talk about awkward stuff like that as well.
good luck
2006-12-06 03:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the sex for the moment --- get to know him better and see if there is anything there that would be long term
2006-12-06 03:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋