i really want a baby but i dont know how to ask my husband if he's ready what do you think i should do?
2006-12-06 03:01:11 · 15 answers · asked by Mama 2123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you seroius?
If you cant talk to your husband you shouldnt be married to him!!!!
2006-12-06 03:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie that's your husband you shouldn't have to worry about that but if you are having a problem asking him then maybe you should think it over with yourself first is a baby really what you want right now how long have you been married is the honeymoon over do you have other kids are you financially ready having a baby is not easy are you where you wont to be in your life right now well whatever you come up with always be true to yourself first then sit and talk to him ok (good luck)smile
2006-12-06 11:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by reddiwhip2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must talk to him. There is no other way to do it. I mean you are married and should have no problem communicating with eachother. You dont have to say I want a baby and I want one now. Just let him know that this is something you have really been thinking about and would like it if he would give his imput on the situation, and think about it himself.
If you are not able to discuss such a big topic with your husband, then there is not good communication in your marriage, and that is not good.
2006-12-06 11:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're married to him, then it should be fairly easy to just up and talk to him about it. Just tell him that you need to talk, and ask him how he feels about the situation and if he's ready for something like this.
Good Luck!
2006-12-06 11:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if don´t know how to start you may try this ,I think you may start a casual chat with him you may also refer to a very cool thing you saw in a store maybe some children clothing or so , then may ask him if he ever pictured himself as a father and try to get info from there just simply listen and se how he reacts you even can learn a timeline that he has planned if any, if not you may know what to spect if you get pregnant and surprise him as someone said here before.
2006-12-06 11:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Luis M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really strange if you cannot talk to your husband about this. If you can't talk to him about it. Then maybe you are not ready yourself. Or maybe you are afraid of what he might say. I think you should just talk to him about it.
2006-12-06 11:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by greenlantern28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know you are interested in see what your baby would look like. and the fact that you are getting close to the time to have one of your own...he may be having similar thoughts on this subject,,,if you don't ask you will never know....lastly why did this not get settled before you ever got married?
2006-12-06 11:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by pbear i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should seat him down and say honey i really want to make a baby with you , will you help me out please?
or are you ready for a little me and you?
2006-12-06 11:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly forever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just come out and tell him and see if he is ready, then try
2006-12-06 11:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to work on the communication aspect of your relationship, so that you are not afraid to ask your man nothing.
2006-12-06 11:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him when he thinks he would be ready and see where it goes from there
2006-12-06 11:02:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋