my now ex-boyfriend dumped me for a little sl** only three days while we were still going out, he said that he liked me and that he would never cheat on me. but, now that he's with her he still talks to me saying that he still loves me, and how he wants to get back together with me. i want him to leave me alone, b/c i'm already over the break up, help me, i feel like crying.
2006-12-06 02:58:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He used to love you, but not any more, otherwise he would not be with other girl, he's a liar.
Trust me, you would get over this and try following:
1) Do not take his phone call/see him at all
2) Spend most of time with your friend, do not be alone.
3) Go to gym (this always help me a lot)
You deserve a better guy than him.
2006-12-06 03:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by E.T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now guys operate a little differently than girls.. And amoung guys they deal with things differently. You hear girls complaining that their men are looking at other girls. Why do they do this? Hormones.. They wonder if they were single if they still had the game to pull that chick. Now some men don't give it a second thought. Others act on it and cheat, those who don't believe in cheating leave the person they are with. The love is still there in guys mind, they are simply lusting. In turn not worth your time. seen it first hand with 5 different relationships. And the guys keep messin over the wives that give them 2,3,4 chances and keep coming back. Now that hes gone start to move on, hes a loser. And there is someone better out there, let him have that chick. He had a prime rib dinner and traded it in for french fries at jack in the box. Best way to look at it..
2006-12-06 03:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's not fair but girls usually sit there and talk about you and put extra effort into their outfits and usually when dumped if they're crying or upset (even if they don't look upset in front of you) they go talk to their friends who are probably the ones giving you sh*t and then their friends might tell their boyfriends or other girls
2016-05-23 00:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys want what they can't have.... He wanted this new girl and thought he could have his cake and eat it too...If he LOVED you then he wouldn't have broke up with you at all !! And for a S*ut you never know what he may have now or why he wants to get back together be careful take some time away from him make sure that's what you want.. plenty of fish in the sea....
2006-12-06 03:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by karebear0603 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys dump girls that they still like because they do not want to hurt them by telling them that they are JUST guys...Guys want sex...they decide that they really like you and don't want to hurt you by telling you that what they are really interested in is a sexual relationship (a f*ck buddy...)
He breaks up with you, and goes to someone else and gets the sex that he once desired, then he realizes "oh my gosh, i really liked her"
He is a guy...you need to get over this creep, and find a mature guy who will come to terms with the fact that he likes you, and maybe like you for who you are instead of what he gets from you.
2006-12-06 03:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE COURAGE TO SAY NO
THIS NO WILL INCREASE YOUR SELFCONFIDENCE AND LESSION FOR HIM " DO NOT FLIRT " NEVER BELIVE THE WORDS FROM A MALE ( I AM MALE TOO)
Darling.
I'd cross the hottest desert,
I'd swim the deepest sea,
I'd climb the highest mountain,
But I can't come over tonight because it's raining.
2006-12-06 03:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by v_adaniya2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys liked to have another chick on the side and i'm sorry to tell you that. he's leading you on so when things get messed up in the relationship with this slut, he has someone to go to next. just move on, it's the easiest to do even though it'll be hard at times
2006-12-06 03:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your not really over it at all.
FYI. Guys DONT dump girls they still like.
2006-12-06 03:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him. He wants to play the both of you. Move on and find a guy thats worth your time.
2006-12-06 03:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not over the breakup if you're still so upset about it.
And he doesn't love you; he's a moron who has no respect for you.
2006-12-06 03:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋