I was at my man's house the other weeekend and he has a camera phone just like I do and he had went down stairs to cook me some food and while he was down there I look at his pictures on his phone and I ran across some pictures of another girl. When he came back up stairs I asked him who the girl was, he grab the phone out of my hand and said she was a friend with a smile on his face. I am begining to think he is cheating on me. I have been trying to get in touch with him but he has not replyed to anything. What should I do and do you think he is cheating on me? I am about threw with him. Please Help Me!
2006-12-06 02:50:34 · 15 answers · asked by Leah H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetheart you need to get rid of him because he is cheating on you and you don't want to catch anything because you don't if the girl came with a secret package (std) there's someone out there better for you so don't worry he isn't worth you love because he is cheating on you
2006-12-06 02:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you were 100% WRONG to go into his cellphone without his permission. If my girlfriend did that to me that would be a big red-flag and I very well might dump her just for that. You have proven that YOU cannot be trusted. What if you found no pictures in his phone? He would be clean as a whistle and you would still have been the deceitful person. However you look at it, you broke his trust!
Now, back to the matter at hand. Since you did find that picture that does raise another interesting question. Is he cheating on you? Well by itself, the picture doesn't mean that he's cheating but it does mean that he has a female friend. Do you feel threatened by him having female friends? If so, why? That says more about your insecurity than his faithfulness. Can a man not have female friends other than his girlfriend?
You have to understand that men need to have female friends as much as women need male friends. Even though you may not be able to buy something it is still nice to go window shopping to know that someone out there thinks you are cool and attractive.
Unless you either catch him in a compromising situation or he admits something to you, you will never know. The bottom line is that you cannot make someone do something they don't want to do and you cannot stop someone from doing something they want to do. Either way, you finding out is the smaller picture.
You need to decide if you can handle this situation. If it is too much for you, you should break up with him. If he does truly care about you he will find his way back to you. We always want what we cannot have. If he is done with you, he is done with you, whether you are still dating or not. And if that's the case, just let him go.
In the future, maintain a higher level of self-respect and do not go into someone else's phone without permission. I still speak with my ex (and even when she was my girl), whenever she would leave her e-mail account open, I would not look at it. I would log-out and let it go. It's none of my business and if I checked it I know I would be invading her privacy and that is not okay with me. I have always had more respect for her than that.
2006-12-06 03:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by youreblessed15 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You learned a lesson! A cell phone is a private thing. Invading it is no different from him finding your diary and reading it. He's not talking to you because you invaded his privacy. Give it some time, and make sure that he knows you will never do it again.
Is he cheating? There are 3 billion women on the planet. Expecting your man never to communicate with any of them ever again is pure insanity and stupidity. Just because he has pictures of another woman doesn't mean he's intimate with that woman. What if she were a cousin you didn't know about? How silly would you feel then?
2006-12-06 02:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by albion53151 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl it sound to me like a cheat but dont judge yet. Wait to find out some hard core proof then hit him with it hard. How long have you been trying to get in touch with him? He is still your man and if he isnt talking to you or if he is going around the conversation. . .he is creeping!
2006-12-06 02:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by lorisbarbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's cheating to me. Also sounds like you knew before you saw the pics. Otherwise, why else would you be going through his phone while he's not around? Anyway, now you know, and knowing is half the battle.
2006-12-06 02:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by dorky_goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, don't jump to conclusions too quickly, he might be telling the truth about her just being a friend, or he might be cheating on you with her, there's no right and unhurtful way to say this, but if he is cheating on you with her, leave him. you deserve way better and you know that, forget him and move on to someone you know will treat you better than that.
2006-12-06 02:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's done with you! The smile when he tool the phone back was all the answer you needed....good luck with the next one!
2006-12-06 03:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound's like he's a dishonest creep. Ditch him and forget he ever happened. Raise your standards.
2006-12-06 02:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Betty Mae Bop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he got that mad than he probably is, sorry to say. Ignore him and he'll come crawling back, but DON'T take him!
2006-12-06 02:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is cheating... if not he will tell u the details
2006-12-06 03:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by sperio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋