Assuming you love him, but is
1. unsure of his sexual orientation
2. unsure of his level of commitment
3. unsure of his feelings
and
4. will not ask him directly
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An additional comment: he loves you.
2006-12-06 02:47:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He´s probably confused, if he´s young then he is probably disorientated. Show him what true, real God approved ,hetro sex is like, and he´ll soon change his mind.
You can´t beat the real thing, especially if you love someone
2006-12-06 03:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ganymede 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well all depends on you do you care for him? first ask yourself that and be honest with yourself then the next thing ask him why the change now then was he just lost in his sexuality for a minute? or did something go wrong for him sit down and have a real good talk to him if you are interested in him you know things do happen to people have to learn how to deal you know if you care for him be with him ok but first take an aids test the both of you so he wont feel bad about you asking him (good luck) smile
2006-12-06 10:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by reddiwhip2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kiss him. It's the only way you'll know. Maybe the only way he'll know. Just, get close, be friendly, and then plant one on him. Don't get sloppy. He said he was gay, right? SO, if he really is, he shouldnt be weirded out or feel funny. He should just pass it off as a friendly gesture.
Guys kiss guys in italy, they all kiss on the lips. Just do it, see what he says.
2006-12-06 10:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by m0o p!e 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seriously not for me... I wouldnt be able to have a relationship with him knowing how he used to be.. eww!! Im not a person to believe in that kind of stuff but im not gonna down anyone for being that way.. Makes u think what if he wants a three some with another male.. no thanx!
2006-12-06 10:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one, i would make sure of his sexual orientation and if he has acted on them and whats up with it...if he has....one make him go get tested before u act on anything...
two, i would find out why he is going after you now... did the gay thing just not work out? is he confused?
three...are u sure u want to get mixed up with someone like this..hes not sure of himself and u start to really commit to him and then he decides he want to go the other way again?
i would just stay friends and that all....
he just sounds too confused at the moment to know what he wants..
2006-12-06 10:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by luvutaz1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is really gay, then be sure that things wouldn't work out well between you two
2006-12-06 10:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off he is not gay --- bi perhaps -- and how the heck are you supposed to know or find out anything if you dont talk to him???
not ask him but talk to him --- you can tell quickly if someone likes you when talking
2006-12-06 10:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run like hell! He might go back to his first love, peter.
2006-12-06 10:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by MsFancy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Beat him beyond recognization!!!!
2006-12-06 10:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by Sarsippius 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
RUN FOR THE HILLS
2006-12-06 10:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by ??? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋