I'm a 28 year old woman and I find no sensation from intercourse. I feel absolutely NOTHING! It sorta feels uncomfortable and I know to some women, painful regardless of how much they've done it. I don't have any STD's and I'm healthy and I KNOW for a FACT that switching partners has nothing to do with this problem. I have heard that almost 80% of women feel nothing during intercouse? Is that true? I know some men say, "you need to find a man to do it right." I personally believe that's an ego booster for men. I think it's bologna...Thanks to those who answer!
2006-12-06 02:34:50 · 10 answers · asked by Leigh 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
There is nothing to licking or pumping away if there was a partner switch. There is NO right or wrong way...
2006-12-06 02:36:04 · update #1
try me
2006-12-06 02:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by GoLd E 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. I have always enjoyed sex, and every single girlfriend I have ever confided in has enjoyed it as well. (Or they said they did, I'm not there in their bedrooms, lol) My husband has a large penis, but I have had smaller partners and still enjoyed the sensation. I absolutely love receiving oral sex, too. I think maybe you might have an underlying emotional aversion to sex. Have you looked into seeing a therapist? There are doctors out there that specialize in this very thing, and many women discover that it was an emotional issue that was preventing them from enjoying intercourse. You also may have a hormonal imbalance, which is an easy fix! A GYN can prescribe either estrogen or testosterone to fit your individual needs. Please, don't give up yet. Sex is great!
2006-12-06 02:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by clever nickname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... well, the problem with that statistic is that it's FAR too high. I know some women cannot orgasm during sex, but not very many feel NOTHING. I would have to say that sex for the female half of the species is highly psychological. It's not just the actions, but the preparations. Take your time, find your fantasies and don't just focus on the climax aspect of it. It took a long time for my girlfriend to just let go and enjoy sex in general, and nearly three months after that until she experienced her first orgasm.
I would say, try and find someone who makes you feel good in general, is open to suggestion and make it fun. Even if you don't climax, sex is a beautiful, sharing experience and does well for bonding.
2006-12-06 02:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really like sex either i am 23 years old I also know its not anything to do with the men I just dont find sexual intercourse good its uncomfortable and usually a waste of time I feel bad for my hubby but its not like i feel nothing but it doesnt feel good if you find a way tomake it good let me know lol
2006-12-06 02:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A LOT of women don't like intercourse. I don't mind it (I like the sorta filled-up feeling) but I certainly don't get orgasms or sexual arousal like I do from clit stimulation. If it hurts or is uncomfortable, you should try using lots of lube (or see a doctor), but if you're just, well, bored, then you and your partner should make more of an effort to stimulate the parts of you that are responsive. Try doggie style or reverse cowboy--he'll like the view of your butt, and you'll have plenty of room to rub, ah, all the right parts of yourself.
2006-12-06 02:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a male (sorry). But if you want to know whats going on it is really up to you. 55% of intercourse depends on your immaginations.
2006-12-06 02:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your vagina has very few nerve endings in it. So actually act of him going in and out prolly won't do it by itself. I can not have an orgasm unless I participate and get myself off, ie playing with your clit.
2006-12-06 02:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Dizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I do not like it I am 32
2006-12-06 02:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by valgal115 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your not being stimulated enough? or maybe you could have a slow sex drive. i recommed talking to your doctor about your issues so he/she can help you with your problem. because trust me it is common.
2006-12-06 02:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may have a low sex drive
2006-12-06 02:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by flipper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋