She is probably jealous that you are with him and she just wants to make trouble. You should try to ignore her if you can or just say to her that you do not control your fiance and he is doing the things because he wants to and she needs to take things up with him and not you.
Maybe she is coming to you because she thinks that it will be easier but if she wants to sort things out she really needs to deal with him and not bother you
2006-12-06 03:11:48
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answered by Baps . 7
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She's either trying to warn you about your fiance with things that may or may not be true or she wants you to be just as miserable as she is. The problem is that only your fiance and his ex wife know the true story. You will only ever be "told" what the person telling you wants you to know - even if that is your fiance doing the talking. In some cases, what you're hearing from the ex wife may be true and on the other hand it may not be. Just keep in mind any warnings or misgivings you have when your mind starts questioning a situation.
2006-12-06 08:20:01
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answered by Patricia D 4
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Because shes bitter and keep in mind misery loves company. You be happy and do u and keep neagativity out you life enjoy your new found love and lifetime partner. Be strong and dont let people like her or anything cause confusion, or stress in you all relationship. Good luck and god bless
Oh yeah tell ol girl to find her some business, a hobby, or a man , because her complaining of there past is just that the damn past.
2006-12-06 01:58:15
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answered by Queen of Da Trill 2
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Because she can! Do not let her, you should not have to talk to her at all. Even if there are children, those are your future husbands and his ex's. Let him deal with her 100% of the time!!! Good Luck.
2006-12-06 02:00:46
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answered by kitkat 7
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you dont give too much information.do they share a child?why do you need to have communication with her?put him on the telephone.set your boundaries now.tell her that you do not wish to be the "middle man" for her to take her concerns/complaints to him.that it does not concern you.
2006-12-06 05:20:18
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answered by Anonymous
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just because ur fiancee probably doesn't listen to it anymore and they still need to complain to someone .... or may they are trying to scare u away....
2006-12-06 05:39:54
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answered by laydenirvine 4
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Because she now has a new person to blame.
2006-12-06 01:53:15
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answered by Anonymous
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she feels threatened, that she cant tell him or boss him around anymore. tell her she had her chance and now its up to you to get him right, she needs to back off.
2006-12-06 01:59:01
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answered by sissy 3
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