yesterday the guy that i was with told me it was over I was like what and a few mins befor he told me he was happy with me I guess he lied. He said he was sorry and i have been crying ever since the last thing I told him was I do like him and I don't know why but he sucks and he said he was sorry I told him he isn't as sorry as he is going to be. this morning he tried to talk to me and all I told him was I don't want to hear it if it is going to make me cry more then I walked off. Should I try and talk to him.
2006-12-06 01:48:46 · 15 answers · asked by sexy_happy_gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been there. I was, until July this year with a guy that i had been with for the best part of 2 years, and I loved him very much. I thought that we were going to get married, we were planning holidays together and everything. The night before he broke up with me he sent me a text telling me that he loved me and that he was just going out for the evening with a friend. The next day, he dumped me by e-mail with no explanation other than that he loved me and thought that I was wonderful :S
I hated what he did to me and I cried for weeks, or at least what felt like it. I ended up having to go on a camp with him 6 weeks later, and I prepared myself to finally speak to him, but it was too late, he had moved on and didn't want to talk to me... it was like we were strangers, there was no closure.
My advice, is to talk to him. Its not going to be a fun exercise, but at least then a month down the line it is sorted. I had 2 do things the hard way, I am happy now, I have met someone new who has respect for me, but it has been hard.
2006-12-06 03:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by KatieG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want some explanation, then let him explain
however, if he keeps telling you that he is sorry and stuff like that,
don't contact him as it will be easier for you to forget..
plus you wont have to go through it one more time...
I think he is feeling guilty now and he wants to make up for what he has done but he probably does not want to come back..if so , I would be careful as he sounds to me as a little liar
first he tells you he is happy then he breaks up...
i know it is very hard for you now but if he treated you the way he did, he certainly does not deserve you...
i am sure u will find someone who will love you as much as you can love, or even more
chin up, wish u all the best and dont waste your time on jerks
2006-12-06 01:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by May 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, only give him a chance if he apologises for what he did to you and accepts that he has made you seriously upset. But be careful as now he knows the kind of emotional hold he has over you so if you do let him back in he may use this to his advantage. Do what you feel is right, weigh up whether he is worth going through it all again.
Have a long think!
2006-12-06 01:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Simmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't talk to him if I were you. I was in a similar situation when my bf broke up with me out of the blue. Leave him alone and trust me if he really likes you he will come running back, but if he doesn't then you know he was playing games with you and was lying about whatever he said to you -- and if that's the case then you don't want him back anyway.
2006-12-06 01:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is unsure about his feelings and would like to talk them through with you, this usually happens when men are afraid of getting hurt. I would speak to him - but only in a public place where you can leave easily in case he starts being a tw@
2006-12-06 01:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Barry Von Leotard III 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not grown up enough to have a relationship with you if he can't even be straight about his feelings! I suggest that you don't waste another minute on him, you should round up some mates and have a girly night pronto!
2006-12-06 02:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he playing with you..... How did this all come about.... surely you must have had some idea this was on the cards... Women are usually so good at spotting these sort of things....
2006-12-06 02:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. There are thousands of other boyfriends that will not behave like this and truly value a relationship with you.
Good luck.
2006-12-06 02:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just leave it. He will come running back but you shouldn't even consider it, he hurt you once already. Best of luck though for the future.
2006-12-06 01:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like hes playing head games with you if he told you earlier how happy he was with you.
2006-12-06 01:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by norb4423 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋