what can i do.?

Question

My girl friend and i broke up couple days ago. what can i do to see if shes still interested in me, reason why we broke up is because of space. is this normal in relationships?? she tells me all these wonderful things but does she really mean them. i dont know what to do.

Answer 1

She's just not that into you.
Walk away while you still have your pride. She's done with you, and you need to accept that.

Answer 2

As you've been involved with each other, presumably, there will be a level of trust and respect with both of you. Therefore, I would go talk to your woman about what's on your mind.

Yes, space is critical in a relationship .... two people in love cannot always share the same space or the same interests. You may like going to the occasional hockey game but she doesn't; she may like going for long walks along riverbanks but you don't. If you want a relationship to work, you must allow your partner to pursue and participate in his/her own interests.


I can't tell by your question if you weren't giving her enough space or vice versa. Whatever the case, you two cannot possibly be together always ... give each other some breathing room. Trust me, this is perfectly healthy and both of you will be immensely more happy.

If, for any reason that you and your ex-girlfriend don't mend fences, keep this lesson in-mind for your next relationship.

Answer 3

Move on and stay away. If she said space than she lost interest but she's nice. Stay away until she initiates contact of some sort because then you will know she wants to be friends and you will know that she does not see you as a stalker now or someone trying to trick her into getting back with him. The only other option besides staying away is going balls to the wall and just ask her if she still have feelings and wants to get back together.

good luck either way.