ok theres this girl i like, and shes a cheerleader and im a football player and we both got injured towards the end of the season and got knocked of playing condition and shes been lookin at me alot during games and stuff when we were able to play, and lately ive been talking to her on AIM and stuff and i told her i liked her and she said that she was hanging out with this one dude and so after that i jus approached as a friend and three days later we were talking on AIM and shes like "well i cant cheerlead anymore and i have this injury but after that i have more time for a relationship" and i never brought up relationship in the whole convo, and it takes her time to answer me online and wen i see her in the hall wen im walking with friends she'll pass a couple times with her friends and then the 3rd time she'll spot me from a distance and turn around and go the other way, is it possible shes playing cat and mouse with me or suttin?
2006-12-06 00:49:56 · 15 answers · asked by That guy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
funny, i was thinking "cat and mouse" before i even scrolled down far enough to read that you already wrote it.
and she's probably using the fact that you like her to "fluff" her ego to her friends.
2006-12-06 00:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably here way of playing hard to get, but you should just as her if she likes you. Or be smart about it and ask around...I'm a girl and I do not just tell a guy that I like them and want to date them. I normally tell a few other people and eventually the guy finds out, and I play cat and mouse with the guy I like too!
2006-12-06 00:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmii 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately. You spilled the beans and she's gonna have some fun with it. If her other bf turns away from her, she thinks she can come running to you as a backup. If I were you, write her off and seek someone else. Looks aren't everything, I'm sure there are alot of respectable girls out there for you.
2006-12-06 00:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like she's waiting for you to make the first move.
Now the ball's in your court -- she's expressed interest, made sure that you knew she had time for a relationship now, and puts herself in your line of sight so that you notice her -- what you do next is up to you.
2006-12-06 00:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes u but she has no chance of seeing u closely since u got this injury why not try approching her slowly (u must now that girls are scared too just like boys)
2006-12-06 00:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Terance i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or maybe she's feeling stupid for bringing up a relationship, since you didn't say anything about it to her. She dropped a hint and you dropped the ball.
2006-12-06 00:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by Milana P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she either doesn't like you and doesn't want to hurt you or she likes you and shes just shy and trying to ignore you because shes scared of rejection.....let her know you liek her and see if she feels the same about you....good luck
2006-12-06 00:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea she probaly thinks its cute just go up and kiss her that will knock her socks off
2006-12-06 00:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah shes got you right where she wants you good luck hope you get together soon
2006-12-06 00:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, trust me...ok so i'm a guy but thats pretty blatent..move in for the kill she likes you
2006-12-06 00:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bar19one 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋