I met an older woman at my place of work, we got on really well and talked tons. She told me about a guy she was sleeping with who was unavailable to her he had a girlfriend. We agreed to be FWB for a short while because we felt good in each other's company, this continued for about a year until I developed feelings for her but she said she still loved the unavailable man. She also slept with other men in clubs and had unprotected sex, and she has 3 kids and divorced.
Why do you think she did this? I did it because I liked her and was a bit lonely at the time but do you think she had alterior motives?
Why do you think she did this?
2006-12-06 00:39:06 · 11 answers · asked by dfsdg d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Butler T. might be right, so I strongly urge you to get yourself checked over for any STD's.
2006-12-06 00:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was just looking for a FWB and your getting your feelings involved, which is why maybe you shouldn't be involved in a relationship thats FWB. The reason she did what she did is because she is a single woman and is not tied down to anything or anyone, but her kids. You have to see that she is a divorced woman who wants to live her life how she wants and do who she wants. You just need to move on and find yourself a GF. Your going to get hurt if you keep on seeing her like this, unless maybe you talk to her and she had feelings for you, which I highly doubt but who knows....
2006-12-06 00:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by BuNNY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to your description you both agreed to be FWB, so it seems to me that she is sticking with the original agreement.Probably needless to say why FWB isn't such a great idea. We are human beings with feelings. Also it sounds to me like she just likes to get around. I'd be concerned about having sex with someone who has unprotected sex with several other men.
2006-12-06 00:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Theresa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just out to have a good time and like most, want what she cant have, someone unavailable........sound familiar. You sound like a nice guy and should move on and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are and not use you just for the sex. Good luck.
2006-12-06 00:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's just looking to fill up her one need: Sex.
She won't let you be anything further to her. You really want to buy an STD? Pull out while you can, boy.
There's plenty of good women out there that have to content themselves with an utter moron because men like you are behind the *** of a ******* whore. Wake up and smell the flowers, dude! Let the whore kill herself if that's what she wants. But don't let her pull you into her abyss. You'll lose your mind.
2006-12-06 01:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she do what? She did nothing wrong...you two weren't dating, you were both free to have sex or see anyone else you wanted...she may have acted foolishly by having unprotected sex, but that's the only issue here I see.
You have feelings for her, but she didn't reciprocate...you have no reason to be upset at her for that...she told you she was into someone else...if you got hurt, it was because you chose to put yourself into a position for that to occur.
2006-12-06 00:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is just enjoying her lihe without caring for anybody.
May be, she really liked that man and now when he is not with her, she has found another sort of living to make herself happy.
Keep away from her. It's Not At All your fault. She is doing wrong.
You just keep away from her, that will be good for you.
Good Luck !!
2006-12-06 00:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by shon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe she just one of those that got to have more than one man. she didnt want to tell the truth cuz its embarassing she wanted you. take it as it is and end it...completely. tell her you dont want to waste your time anymore. besides, if shes sleeping unprotected with other guys, then theres no telling what kind of diseases could already or could eventually go around. and sex isnt something to just throw around like that. and i bet you dont want a baby with someone like that. youd end up payin child support so she could get laid. save yourself the pain and be done with it.
2006-12-06 00:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is confused avoid her for a while she will start to wonder why you acting like that and actually be the one to approach you then you can set your rules and if she doesn't like it then just move on she doesn't seem to care she just wants to have fun
2006-12-06 00:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you didn't deserve this but, she may have just been trying to make herself feel better in all the wrong ways.
2006-12-06 00:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by buggs8498 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋