I dont see why you would want to spend your hard earned money on some slut when you can pay bills or pay for your wife/gf to do it. Or have the rub her (stripper) stanky sweaty *** all over you? I dont get it maybe it's just a male ego thing. Please explain.
2006-12-06 00:36:18 · 34 answers · asked by missy87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do all men cheat on there wifes when they go or does it lead up to something like that. I for one never been, but has seen a male stripper at my sisters 25th B-day party. I just dont like somebody I dont know swinging there penis in my face or try'n to put it on me. pluss I would rather shop with that money. Should I let my husband go to a strip club? ( I dont think I'm going to say he can go anytime soon).
2006-12-06 00:53:13 · update #1
I've never understood it either. I think wasting money at strip clubs is beyond stupid.
2006-12-06 00:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by freshmeatpuppet 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
If we thought they were stanky and sweaty, do you think we would go? They smell like nice perfume, and they are much more attractive than the average girl.
Men go because we like being sexually stimulated, which is the reason every single human is alive- through sexual stimulation.
Why are you so worried about men's egos? Men probably don't think that way at all, it's probably just been your experience from being turned down so many times.
Why would anyone PAY their wife to strip? Most strippers by definition of the job, are way hotter than most wives. Plus men already give their wives enough money for sex through all the money they make while their wives sit on their fat asses.
2006-12-06 00:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
the last time i was in a strip club was over two years ago. from that day on i finally realized what a waste of my money it was, and an exasperation on my emotions. we all love our instant gratification, but on the way home from the strip club all i could think of was how pathetic i was and how lonely, horny, and depressed i felt. i vowed to do my best to never go to one again, and never ever to go to one if i was in a relationship.
i will tell you that strip clubs can be addictive, esspecially if you've got the money to spend or the will power to conserve while you're there. the girls make men feel like men, don't ask them why they're there, and all problems there can be solved with a dollar. it is a simple environment, and guys are pretty simple creatures.
2006-12-06 01:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by alex l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not all men go. The men who do go, go for different reasons. Some go to get off. I've been a few times, mostly for events such as bachelor parties. They're fun, the girls are pretty, typical reasons to go I guess.
I agree with you about the $ thing though. In high school my buddies and I went to a club and my best friend spent a ton of $$$ on one girl who was glad to take it and spend it on her boyfriend later that night I'm sure! My buddy was a dumbass! I'm kind of a cheapskate when it comes to that kind of stuff, maybe that's why I'm not more popular when I do go in.
2006-12-06 00:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by hot carl sagan: ninja for hire 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"All" men don't do anything...neither do "all" women...humans are visual creatures, and males moreso (generally) than females...we are also sexual creatures (again generally speaking) and a lot of guys like looking at the naked or nearly naked female form...
Calling a stripper skanky (part of her) just makes you sound jealous and insecure. No need to put down chicks to strip because you are upset your guy likes to watch it.
There's nothing wrong with going to strip clubs, watching porn movies, or looking at naked pics online (as long as all are adults)...it's just something some people enjoy doing...
If you have an issue due to the money, because cover charges and drink prices in strip clubs tend to be fairly high (and then the tips to the dancers) talk to your guy about it...there are other, less expensive, ways he can satisfy his urge to see some skin...
2006-12-06 00:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Always remember this.
men are visual creatures, we get pleasure from seeing the beauty in things, including young women.
As women get older, they cover-up more, and we see less of them, we don't judge them, but they think we do.
we enjoy the beauty of the woman figure, and the way they move.
We enjoy being turned on, by the visual stimulation.
As women get older, we get less stimulated, as you women do less and less sexy things as you get older, believing you are not sexy.
Women are emotional creatures, you prefer flowers, a warm hug, to be complemented, be praised.
look at yourself, you dawn soft pretty clothes, apply makeup, why? because you feel you are not beautifully enough, and are worried how others see you, You want to feel beautiful.
Why do you wear hi heels, They don't feel comfortable, but you dawn them to make your legs look sexier
Us guys, we want to look nice, and wear clothes that are comfortable, and looking at strippers makes us feel good, also bring back the memories and pleasures of youth.
if you women just ease up as you get older and relax maybe strip clubs would go out of business.
2006-12-06 00:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by Juggernaut 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women look beautiful.
Men feel weak and helpless around women who are pretty.
They go to strip clubs because it IS what it sounds like it is....,
They have lost control of their sex.
Of course they will tell you they can quit any time...,
its just like any other addiction -- they CAN'T stop it,
or they would have.
The brutally truthful end
2006-12-06 00:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Used Trash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a form of leisure darling... a way to spend time with the peers and enjoy something that is common... and besides not all men go regularly to strio clubs I even know some that haven't been into one... and I know some girls that go to its counterpart ^^, I think some do it for experience while some enjoy the feeling
2006-12-06 00:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by (,") Verns (",) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to go to clubs as a male it held an appeal to me. When I figured out it was all about the money, it lost it's appeal to me. Why have T&A shaking in my face that I can't taste or touch and go home frustrated along with having my wallet significantly lighter?
2006-12-09 05:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is there to get?
Men like sex and hot women. Most men do not go to the strip club INSTEAD of paying their bills, and most strippers are not sweaty/smelly...what the hell kind of clubs have you been in?
And you miss the point--guys don't WANT a lap dance from thier girlfriends, they want someone they have never seen before to do it--that's what makes it hot!
2006-12-06 00:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
i think its just a male thing but not all men go to them most of them respect there wife or gf so i dont know thats how guys are i guess
2006-12-06 00:43:22 · answer #11 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋