some people say im ugly some say im not some people call me a freak?

Question

some say that there is nothing wrong with me who do i believe some people give me dirty looks some not i dont know who to trust any more i just dont know what to do about it some say im attractive some say im ugly an different ive had a nervous breakdown because of it all im so confused like ive lost my identity i just dont know who i am any more or what i am do i take negative comments or positive im all mixed up if people are saying that im not ugly what is it that i am do i have plastic surgery to fit in with the negative peoples response or do i just accept what i am and still have to take insults from people etc this issnt in my mind as i have been called so many things during my life time i have no confidence etc and people find it easy to intimidate me and bully me as i cant stand up for myself please help me on this I JUST AT A BIG LOSS AT THE MOMENT I DONT KNOW WHO TO TURN TO ANY MORE I REALLY SEE SOMETHING OF DISFIGURATION IN THE MIRROR FACIAL ONLY ANY ONE WITH GOOD ADVICE

to god bless you i live in cheshire

Answer 1

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder darling...listen, some people actually think Brittany spears is ugly, or they think that Catherine Zeta Jones is ugly...because they 'aren't their type'...People that insult your appearance, (and believe me, I have heard it all also)..are rude, and jealous and insecure about themselves, and do so to make themSELVES feel better, for the most part...so you must learn to have confidence in yourself...you are just going through the ever horrible identity crisis in your life right now,...Listen to the people who tell you you look good, and the ones that put you down, are truly not your friends...and if you need someone to turn to? God and Jesus is always the answer..I can guarentee that with a big old smile and a hug...now you start loving yourself and tell everyone who don't like you this for me ..."If you don't like my peaches, don't shake my tree"...and have a Merry Christmas, and a beautiful new year!

Answer 2

people use to call me ugly all the time I remember one time I stay home cutting school hopeing I would just die becuase I was so ugly,then I got older and was able to buy my own clothes wear my hair how I wanted to wear it,the I realized if you feel ugly you will be ugly to other people,I learned no matter how ugly you feel hold that head up like you are the bomb,I use to be so ugly I said im never going to find a boyfriend so I was going to become a nun,I am very pretty now nice body pretty face and enjoy modeling trust me,take it from an ugly duckling,you will feel better once your able to dress how you want and look how you want.And hold that head up regardless of how you look thats what people look for,they pin point people like you becuase they can just tell how you feel about yourself.if your under age this can be hard,but when you get of age and if you want thank- God for plastic sugery you can do what you want and make yourself happier.And to those people talking trash to you try not to be afraid tell them you seen there mom and she looked like dodo,if they put there hands on you,you know what to do ,beat there *** or call the cops.where do u live I will help you,no im sorry violence is bad but I hate a bully,or people who try to put others down and they only do it cause they are fat or ugly themselves.

Answer 3

Okay, got it. Let's take this on a gradient, shall we.

If somebody tells you, "You're ugly," what's the difference from saying "You're beautiful"? It is someone else's opinion. You can choose to listen to it or not. But let's not get too introverted about it.

Check out Dianetics, to really get a good understanding about the mind, self-confidence, what causes upsets, etc.
http://www.dianetics.org/en_US/articles/feelings/unwantemo.html

Answer 4

don't ever listen to those which hurt u, just ignore thm, just thnk u r pretty , and one day u wil b,