what would i do if she cant get out of it
2006-12-05 22:55:53 · 13 answers · asked by wbstr_jsnchrls 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make sure she gets caught messing with you. That will break them up. You might get beat down but you are asking for it.
Don't forget, she is going to do the same to you one day.
2006-12-05 23:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A better question to ask is: Is she worth it?
Another good question to ask is: How patient are you? Is she worth waiting for?
You are gonna have to wait until she’s not only done this current relationship but had time to heal and process and live her life, as a single gal after this relationship. You don’t want to rush into anything when she’s still moving on from this guy right? All of that could take years. So is she worth it?
If she is continue to be her friend but keep your feelings at bay, guard your heart zealously. Be patient. But don’t resign yourself either, if you’re gonna wait that long continue to meet other girls, go out with other girls.
Evolution took years not minutes…this will be true for both of you.
2006-12-06 07:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's married I don't think she's as into you as you think. Otherwise she'd break up w/ her boyfriend and be w/ you. The fact that she isn't doing this should tell you that she still has feelings for her BF,strong enough for her to be w/ him and not you. I have a feeling, in the words of the great Bob Dylan, that she just wants to, "have (her) cake and eat it too", ie she likes things the way they are (being w/ her BF while she strings you along). I think like most people would, she's loving the attention. Move on unless she's willing to cut her BF loose. That will show whether or not, " she(')s really into (you)".
2006-12-06 07:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are really in love with her you will fight for that love,but if you are just planning on playing ,lay-off!!!! leave her in that relationship .for all you know the guy is already making her happy.
Like you I have fallen for girls who are either married or in a relationship that's having problems,I ended up messing up their lives coz I was not ready to give my all anyway. Until now I still regret what I did and refuse to enter a situation if I am not ready to either marry the girl or at least make her really happy than just give her false hopes that what you offer is better.
2006-12-06 07:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from her now. What happens if she breaks it off with this other guy? Next, you'll be the guy that she's in a relationship with and trying to get out of. If she didn't want to be with the person that she is with now, she would've broken it off with him before she started looking for someone else. Get out now, before you get in too deep.
2006-12-06 07:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her if she's really serious abt being with you if the answer is yes, then she should leave the other dude and go out with you.
if the answer is no, then sorry but u'll have to move on
if she is unsure, stick around abit and see if she makes up her mind, if that takes too long then get out cos there is no point in being strung along
2006-12-06 07:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Charley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend leave this girl . the relationship won't go n-where. Meet someone who is not in a relationship
2006-12-06 07:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's the thing.
You get to learn a lot about this girl and how she treats men when she's done with them. Take notes. One day she may be done with you.
2006-12-06 06:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should leave her alone and find someone who isn't in a relationship
2006-12-06 06:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok just wait and see how it goes for her and the other guy sorry
2006-12-06 06:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by ann h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋