I'm finding it impossible to forget about this women I really care about, she won't return my messages and won't talk to me. I really care for her and love her with all my heart still but the thing is we still work in same organisation, different offices but every time I get a call from someone in the old office I find it almost impossible to ask how she is...I still love her. Feeling like ending it all, it sucks and i'm low
2006-12-05 21:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by fsdf d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its obvious she dont want u, dont be chasing no female if she wanted u then u would have still had her, move on to another female, u cant spend ya time mourning over her
2006-12-05 21:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Young boi 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is how you feel now, but with the passage of time, you will feel much better about it.
I know breaking up hurts sooo much. Put yourself into some activities that require all your time. Set some personal goals, then start to reach them. I got a hobby: collecting miniatures.
And please place yourself where you are doing some kind of volunteer work. There you will be so busy meeting nice people and helping others that soon the pain you feel now will fade.
Never end it all. It ends too quickly on its own! And you have your life to live. Your life is a gift! Say thanks for it.
Ever helped Habitat for Humanity? Lots of nice ladies there. Go meet some of the great folks in that organization and learn how to build a house at the same time.
I wish you happiness .
2006-12-06 05:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through cos even I am going through the same thing right now with the man I love. Stop leaving messages. We have to be strong for ourselves. We must realize that for whatever reason they don't want us. The more we leave messages the more annoying we are to them. I am getting involved with my writing and I am writing through my pain. Perhaps someday they will realize that they were stupid to let us go. We can't bank on that forrever. To hold on to such an idea would only bind us to an empty feeling that might never come true. We need to find our dignity. It is out there. Though we are hurting, we will meet new people. Perhaps someone is out there that needs us right now. We will never know until we let go of the past. Don't let the powers of rejection consume you. Join me in taking our power back.
2006-12-06 05:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am in the same situation my self. At least he got fired so I don't have to see him everyday. Honestly, I don't want to let go either. But there comes a time that you just have to accept the fact that they just don't want to be with us. The answer is to find someone else. Everyone can be replaced - I am available.
2006-12-06 05:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL NOW:
National suicide crisis hotline
1.800.SUICIDE (784-2433)
Time heals, and maybe you'll find someone better. I was so down when my 1st husband had an affair, but when he divorced me it was the best thing anyone ever did for me. I was free when I met the guy who really was the right one for me. Married to him for 16 years now, and we're both still very happy.
Good Luck : )
2006-12-06 05:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
make prayers, read books, work your job well, love your parents and do not forget her. Even separated, you should cherish the same love for her. Person that has love in his heart is happy.
2006-12-06 05:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps just give her sometime to calm down.i know its bot easy for you but just be strong and be positive.I'm sure she hv her reasons for not taking yr calls.give each other some time and sort things out if u hv the chance.Good luck....
2006-12-06 05:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1 rule DONT DATE ANYONE AT WORK. i broke this rule just recently and it really complicates everything. Nothing you can do. I feel for you. All it takes is time.
2006-12-06 05:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 choices:
1. Get on with your life and find someone new to obsess over.
or
2. Off yourself in your bathtub, it's easier to clean up.
2006-12-06 05:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You must have to understand that it always goes like it.. you have to bear it..
IF you love someone or something.. then let it go. if it is yours. it will always comeback at you. and if it is not yours then it is useless to think about it. try this thought.. you will feel better.
and pray for her prosprous life.
2006-12-06 05:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by usman 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋