i do go clubbing, or pubs ..?

Question

i do go to pubs ... bu the prob is me, i cant talk to gals
i am very timid although i do love their way of being crazy.. als all hot babes r in the pubs..
i rem, i nearly got sm, but coz i didnt know wat to talk.. they pissed on me..

i feel guilty..

plz tell me, how to make 1st step with a gal or lady.. coz most times i see gals or ladies with their wedding ring. i really fear that.. coz i dont want to break their wedding life..

yea, most gals do 1st step.. or some expect boys or guys to make 1st step...

i dunno wat to say more.. am helpless.. but do wanna keep trying..

also if there is any lady or gal reading this message, plz help me or lets be friends..
nadj

Answer 1

Be polite... not too aggressive, but shameless... show no embarassment no matter how the chick reacts to you. Grin at her if she starts shutting you down, as if you are superior to her. And don't give up... don't walk up to them though and make some stupid pickup line.. be yourself and find a way to drag her into the conversation, and drop her back out of it in an instant if she doesn't show the interest that you want... There's plenty of chicks to go around.

Answer 2

Don't go out "looking for it" in pubs, clubs, ect. Those are for jerks for the most part, in my humble opinion. Just spend your time more constructively, build a business and meet people during the course of your daily affairs.