why do people say looks dont matter in a R.ship coz it has to if u dont like the way your gf or bf looks i think it dosent work out in the long run as u will be turn of by them sexauly and thats not good for both parties coz u will make them feel uneasy and not loved im not saying that personalty isnt important but looks are just important could u really make love to quazzy modo or however you spell his name ? i dont think so what do u think
2006-12-05 21:24:14 · 18 answers · asked by lora b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason i ask this question is im not the best looking girl in the world but i have a bf who is so beauitful to look at inside and out i just dont want to lose him im 28 and his 23 and i know he can do better than me and i dont want him to feel his missing out but we love eachother
2006-12-05 21:39:21 · update #1
my bf thinks im beauitfull but i just feel im not good enough for him
2006-12-05 21:42:45 · update #2
hi
my boyfriend is average looking, well i think so anyway....i would not say he is very handsome, but he has this look about him that does something for me, i had someone say to me once "what are you doing with him, you can do better" so i came back with, "well my man is not a wife beater or a drunk druggie like yours he may be a good looking guy, but he's ugly on the inside, and i am not scared of mine like you are with yours"
looks aren't everything hun, mine is a good guy and i am 100% happy with him..i used to go out with this really gorgeous looking fella once and because his looks were stunning i had problems with other women and his ego was so big i lost him eventually, looks arent everything, it's what they have inside that's important
2006-12-05 21:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have been out with a good-looking loser for long enough you will welcome and ugly success-in-life! A nourishing and caring relationship in which both partners make effort with each other and proviide for each other - that's what's important. Some men prefer their girlfriends to not be all that lookswise - makes them feel more secure. I used to rate looks highly but the good-looking partners are often vain and egotistical. Now a man with A KIND HEART is what turns me on...
2006-12-05 22:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They know if they ugly but has a nice personality they will treat them rite n not cheat on them n when it comes down to sex they can turn off the lites but if u ever noticed guys just dont care anyway, they'll basically use a girl 4 sex ugly or not but most wont wife them and 4 girls y do u think the nice guy always end up wit a broken heart becasue they girl used them n cheated on them
2006-12-05 21:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Young boi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks matter less and less the more you get to know someone. Once you know their personality you see people differently. Yes when you are meeting people for the first time, looks do play a part in the way you acnowledge them, but if you give everyone a chance, you will find you like a lot more people.
2006-12-05 21:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Scottish Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quazzy modo? I hope you never suffer that first wrinkle or two then, because what are you going to do if and when that happens? I never had a good looking boyfriend, yet was able to see past the lack of "good looks" in all of them.
2006-12-05 21:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by autumn leaf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With me they don't. You can meet a man who is absoloutely gorgeous but his soul is ugly. Or you can meet one who looks like Quasi Modo and you look in his eyes and see his beautiful soul. That is what I go for. Sometimes it happens with the pretty boys too if they don't realize that they are. Beauty is at the beholder's expense. I may not base looks on findings but how a person laughs, whether or not they can look you straight in the eye.
2006-12-05 21:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exactly what language are you writing in? Go to school, learn English then approach the girl you like. Show her you are educated and capable of talking and maybe a romance will develop...then if all goes well, you fall in love...make love and have a nice life together. I still can't make out what your question is---but honesty comes from within---has nothing to do with sex---it's all in the attraction---honestly.
2006-12-05 21:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most people don't like to say in case they upset the other person. I've found women in particular don't really want to hear the truth about how they look. They like to hear a positive comment and then a suggestion on how to improve perhaps. So that's my advice if you can.
2006-12-05 21:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Pagan Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks do matter, but not that someone is hot, but that they are attractive to you. I think that's what people mean when they say looks dont matter. Someone who has a great personality that appeals to you will become more attractive the better you get to know them.
2006-12-05 21:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is on the inside and from your picture u r not bad looking just go with the flow
2006-12-05 22:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋