if i fulfil every wishes of my one year old daughter is it not spoil her ?

Answer 1

If you fulfill every single wish of your daughter, yes, she will grow up to be spoiled rotten, and way too dependent of her parents.

Answer 2

Every parent wants to make their children happy. But If you do give them everything they WISH for, then your asking for trouble. Your child will grow up to be an ungrateful and dependent person with additional support issues. She will lack the ability to appreciate things in life and will miss out on the feeling of knowing she received things because she is loved or is a good person and not just because she asked for it. There is another way of spoiling her that will do a lot more good than harm... spoil her with hugs and kisses and let her know every day,she is loved and does a good job!

Answer 3

Hi there! Oh yes, I'd say its spoiling, if you fulfil her every wish. At that age, it's probably hard at times to refuse her wish, but I dont think its good for her in the long run to be granted all she wants when she wants it. That way, we Moms teach the babes that if they want something, they'll always get it. Once they go out to a friends house or to nursery and that isnt the case, they'll find it very hard to understand and accept. And also, think about yourself! You work yourself out if you fulfil her every wish. I know, its not so easy, because they;re so little and you love them so much, but really its best to set some boundaries, not harsh ones, but reasonable. ALl the best for you and baby! Gini ;-)

Answer 4

Hi there. My daughter just turned 1 in October. I have done everything I can to make sure her needs are met and her wants are met just as swiftly. She's been constantly cuddled and cooed silly in every way just to make her happy. In return she is very loving and a joy to be with. Recently I started introducing her to limits. My oh my she has a face that expresses angelic wonderment. I struggle to be consistent with her, she is not allowed to pull on the vertical blinds or the cats tail for that matter, she has clearly showed me she understands that doing these things is bad. She looks at me just as she motions to do either. I tell her in a firm voice, "No Dani, please don't touch the blinds." While I'm telling her I'm physically redirecting her away from the blinds. I then praise her, I tell her; "Thank you for not touching the blinds, such a good girl!" I realize she doesn't understand the words so much as the physical gestures and tone of voice. Its not impossible to keep her happy while still teaching her right from wrong. Yeah, I think my kid is spoiled a little and I don't think its a bad thing. I know she's going to be raised to respect others and not to be a whinny puss. My actions are going to help mold her personality, if I set a good example, she's got a good foundation to grow on. Good luck and cuddles and kisses to your baby~!
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Answer 5

If you fulfill every single wish of your daughter, yes, she will grow up to be spoiled rotten, and will dependent on you and she will get used to that, and their demands become more unreasonable. I understand you want them to be happy, but children have to have boundries to feel secure. If they get everything they want, they're kind of mentally free falling. They actually feel more safe and have more trust in you if they have boundries, and discipline . she will also grow up selfish and shallow

Answer 6

I don't think you can spoil a one year old. I think its when they get to 2/3 when they get spoiled the problems start.

Answer 7

If you give her everything she wants she will get used to it and you will find it hard to ever say no even though she is quite young you may fall into a trap you may never get out of even if she doesnt become demanding.
Think if one day you have financial problems your daughter wont understand and how devastated you will be that you cannot give her everything like you used to it will wreck you.

Answer 8

yes it will definitely spoil your daughter,try to divert her mind from her unreasonable demands and the demands which you don't wanna fulfill by playing with her by singing her rhymes etc....i do this with my one year old son.

Answer 9

I don't want to seem rude, but how many wishes can a one year old have? Perhaps if you clarified your question....

Answer 10

it absolutely will, only because they get used to that, and their demands become more unreasonable. I understand you want them to be happy, but children have to have boundries to feel secure. If they get everything they want, they're kind of mentally free falling. They actually feel more safe and have more trust in you if they have boundries, and discipline.